Get UNstuck Get Out of Status Quo, and Get Past Go so you can Create a Life You Love!

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1 Get Out of Status Quo, and Get Past Go so you can Create a Life You Love! By Rémy Chaussé, Creator of The Revolution! Here are my favorite tips to unlock the stunning, amazing, powerful you!

2 Are you an extraordinary woman with big-ass dreams who is ridiculously unsatisfied with status quo And you re ready to just get on with it? Y ou have at last found a resource where you can discover how to get out of status quo and get past go. Yes, you can finally BE RID of whatever has you stuck once and for all and say Yes! YES! to your dreams. We re all waiting for our breakthrough that one, big moment when it all comes together kind of the ultimate a-ha moment when it all gets explained and it all makes sense and we all live happily ever after But breakthroughs don t usually happen that way which is why they re so frustrating! A breakthrough is a journey, and the problem with a journey is that it could take years. I don t know about you, but when I want something, I want it now-now-now! So let s get on with it!

3 So how do you, get out of status quo, and get past go so you can create a life you LOVE? Good news! I ve got three small (but powerful!) tips for you...

4 By the way, these three amazing tips are straight from my brand new ecourse:

5 Just to keep it easy-as-pie, though, I won t be giving you all thirty tips from the ecourse right now (I ll show you how to get those in a few minutes). For now, let s just look at my three favorite, quick & simple tips for getting UNstuck. Here we go

6 1 F ind the positive

7 Tip #1 F ind the positive Find the positive W hen it comes to getting UNstuck, there s nothing more powerful than changing your perspective. Sometimes all it takes to find a solution to a challenge is to see it in a different light. So, with that in mind, let s kick things off with a sure-fire trick to change-up your perspective and get UNstuck. You ll need a pen

8 Tip #1 F ind the positive I want you to focus on the reason you opened up this book. You know... the challenge you re facing that s making you feel STUCK. I want you to find just one positive thing about the challenge. Just one. It could be anything. For example, if you lost your job, you could look at finally sleeping in past seven a.m. as a positive thing! Or the possibility of finding an even better job. Or not having to deal with that annoying co -worker with the strange body odor. You get the idea Got your one thing? Okay, write it down.

9 Tip #1 F ind the positive Now, let s kick it up a notch. Because if you can find just one teeny, tiny little ray of sunshine in your big dark cloud, I bet you can find five. So write those down, too. And if you can find five, then you can find ten. Go ahead and add them to your list. I ll bet if you can find ten positive things about that challenge, you can even find twenty. So write those down, too but I m willing to bet you ll find a solution before you ever get to twenty!

10 Tip #1 F ind the positive Of course, I know some challenges are more well challenging than others. Dealing with things like losing a loved one or being diagnosed with a serious illness are more complicated, more painful, and just a lot harder. So keep your challenge in perspective. Compared to what some other people out there might be going through, yours may not be the worst thing in the world. Even IF you're facing the most challenging challenge of your life, this formula still works. The timeframe may change, but the perspective is what's magical.

11 Tip #1 F ind the positive So when you re faced with a challenge, change your perspective start with one positive about that challenge, then go to ten, and go then to twenty positives. Before you ever get to twenty, I m willing to bet you ll find the resolution! Maybe it will be a new perspective or maybe you'll finally ask the right question that leads you to the right answer. Just start with one positive thing, and you ll begin to create a life you love!

12 Tip #1 F ind the positive Peter s Story Peter had been unemployed for four months. At his previous job, he was making $300,000 a year. But in order to save his family (and his house), he was forced to take a new job at half that salary. And he was devastated. So I asked him to find the positive just one positive thing. He thought about it for a few minutes, and said, Well, there s food on the table! He thought for a minute more and said, My wife hasn t been that happy being a stay-at-home mom recently; she s been bored. The kids are older now and she s been ready to go back to work excited, really.

13 Tip #1 F ind the positive He thought a little bit longer and said, My kids have complained, Oh sure, Dad s home for dinner but he s checked out, just scanning s at the dinner table. And then it dawned on him! He said, You know, every day for four months I sent out resumés. But every day I also had time with my family. Either a day at the beach, or off to a ball game. If I hadn t lost my job, I never would have had that time with my family. And they never would have had that time with me. So when you re feeling stuck, look for the positive. Start with one positive thing. Just start there. Before you know it, you ll see a life you love. Now let s move on to the next tip...

14 2 H onor Your Soul-Self

15 Tip #2 H onor Your Soul-Self Honor Your Soul-Self I f you re feeling stuck, you might also feel some anger. That s normal. But the problem is, when you re angry frustrated confused you leak your power. And that keeps you stuck. The following exercise is going help you plug that leak. You ll need a pen

16 Tip #2 H onor Your Soul-Self Draw two stick figures, one of the left side of the page, and one on the right. Draw a big circle around the stick figure on the right. That circle represents your soul, and the stick figure inside that circle represents you. Label that your soul-self. Or you might even call that your spiritualself. Notice that the circle is bigger than you. That s because your soul is much bigger than you are. But you re inside the circle because you are a part of your soul.

17 Tip #2 H onor Your Soul-Self Now let s go to the left side of the page. Let s label that stick figure your ego-self. That stick figure is outside the circle, and is detached from your soul. In fact, you can draw a dashed line between the you that s outside of your soul (on the left side) and the you that s a part of your soul (on the right side). That dashed line represents a tension line. It can stretch, like a rubber band. Can you see how your ego (or someone else s negativity) could pull you away from your soul-self?

18 Tip #2 H onor Your Soul-Self Label that dashed line responsibility, because it would be irresponsible to stretch away from your soul-self that s where your purpose lives! Who you are, and who you re meant to be, live inside your soul-self. This is where you always want to be aligned, because aligning with your ego-self is what got you stuck in the first place. Ooooooh didja catch that? Aligning with your ego-self is what got you stuck in the first place!

19 Tip #2 H onor Your Soul-Self Around the circle on the right, write down words such as intuition, inspiration, compassion, gratitude, wisdom, happiness, forgiveness and clarity. These would be some of the qualities of your soul-self. (You may think of others!) Over on the left side, write down words like doubts, worries, frustration, anxiety, confusion, blame, resistance, and anger. These would be a few qualities of the ego-self. Now look at that dashed line between your two selves. See how anger and all these other negative emotions pulls you away, or distances you, from your soul-self? It also distances you from what you want, even from your purpose in life and even from prosperity!

20 Tip #2 H onor Your Soul-Self As an example, think of a moment recently when you felt anger. Did you feel connected to your soul, or did you feel distanced from your soul? Anger serves only one purpose: it creates distance between you and the things you value. It pulls you away from your soul-self, making it nearly impossible to create those things you want to create in life. And when you re pulled away from your soul-self, you leak your power. You don t ever want to leak your power!

21 Tip #2 H onor Your Soul-Self We ll always be given challenges that test us. That s how life works. The real test is whether we ll react from our soul-self and stay on the right side of the page or get angry and wind up on the left side of the page. This is what every life challenge is about. Will you pass the test? P.S. Stuckness also has its home on the left side of the page. This is good news! It means that you aren t really stuck in a particular situation you re stuck on the left side of the page!!! All you have to do is increase the wonderful qualities on the right side of the page until they become your new habits. After all, it s who you are in your most natural state. This is how you begin to create a life you love!

22 Tip #2 H onor Your Soul-Self Sue s Story Sue was a business owner who was frustrated at her lack of income. She told me story-after-story of everything she d tried to turn things around. She really worked herself into a lather just thinking about it! When I told her this concept of anger, and how it can distance you from the very thing you re trying to create, she let out a very dry, OH. Almost immediately, she grasped the concept and began to make a list of all the qualities of her spiritual self. Then we looked for the one quality that could help her overcome her frustration. That quality was optimism. Instead of looking at everything that was wrong, she began to look at everything that was right. It took some discipline, but she turned things around in her business and began to create a life she loved. Wow! Okay, one more tip to go...

Then you may be part of the hundreds of millions of people who are feeling

23 But first... Would it be okay if I ask you a question? Have you ever thought to yourself I ve tried everything and I m still stuck! Then you may be part of the hundreds of millions of people who are feeling stuck in life and they just want to create a life they love. That would be the beginning of something HUGE

com Do you ever feel like you re ready for something bigger, something greater than where you are now?

24 Interested in creating your own revolution? If so, I d love you to join me at The Revolution! It only takes one person to start a movement. One person who s ready to stand right up and shout I m not gonna take it anymore! Are you ready to take a stand against mediocrity? Click here Do you ever feel like you re ready for something bigger, something greater than where you are now? Have you pinpointed your life s vision, you thought you were on the right track, but you still aren t getting anywhere or making any money and are wondering, Have I missed the mark? Are you currently in a transition, feeling like your life doesn t quite fit you anymore, asking yourself NOW what? Then you may be ready to challenge status quo and move on to something bigger, something better, something MORE than you re experiencing right now if that s you, then check out Now let s move on to our last tip...

25 3 Y ou Already Know

26 Tip #3 Y ou Already Know You Already Know I f you re stuck, you may have discovered how easy it is to find reasons to stay stuck. Maybe you think you have to stay in a toxic relationship for the money or maybe clarity hasn t come to you enough that you can move ahead on a dream project or maybe you tell yourself that you simply don t know what to do next. You may even have a list of 20 reasons that justify why you re stuck! That s what your mind tells you. But it s rarely the truth.

27 Tip #3 Y ou Already Know In reality, you know exactly what you should do next. You re just terrified to act on it. It could be a fear of not surviving, a fear of losing control (or of being controlled), or even a fear of looking foolish. So how do you deal with this fear? Breaking through requires one bold choice that is directed at tomorrow and not your past. When you make a decision that affirms, "no more I refuse to be stuck for one more day you are actually supporting and strengthening your own value system!

28 Tip #3 Y ou Already Know Feeling stuck is a sign that one of your values is being violated. When you say, I will not stay stuck for one more day, you embrace your own values and move into a state of reverence for yourself a place where you honor who you are, and where you are on your journey. Your life will begin to change almost immediately when you choose integrity. And integrity begins with respect for yourself. I feel stuck really means I want to respect and honor my values. And I already know what to do. I already know. Take that in.

29 Tip #3 Y ou Already Know It can be frightening to leave the comfortable old chair of your life, even if your life is filled with painful moments of quiet desperation. Changing what you know as status quo can bring out your most irrational (and even your rational) fears. But waiting for the right time or the right money or the right connection before moving into the life you re meant to live, only results in more anguish. Because your integrity may be at stake.

30 Tip #3 Y ou Already Know The only way to feel secure is to emerge on the other side, feeling alive again, and standing firmly on your foundation of values. So what if you re afraid? Is it more comfortable being in anguish? Take that leap and make a choice that honors your values. I m willing to bet you already know exactly what to do. You already know. And when you follow your energy (rather than following your logic), you re honoring that you already know what s right for you.

31 Tip #3 Y ou Already Know Michelle s Story Michelle was stuck in a miserable marriage. It was a tangled up mess, with so many moving parts that she couldn t see how to get out of it. So we did a values exercise, and she said her highest value was integrity. I asked her how the marriage was honoring her integrity, and she quickly realized it wasn t. She d been making every excuse in the book on why she should stay IN the marriage. By setting logic aside so she could follow the energy of her own integrity, she could finally make a plan to leave the marriage even better than she found it. Her integrity was intact, and she could begin to create a life she loves!

32 W ell, these have been my favorite three tips to so you can create a life you love! Which one was YOUR favorite? 1 Find the positive 2 Honor your soul-self 3 You already know what to do Aren t you feeling better?

33 Yes! I feel amazing! Actually, I knew that. Because here s a fun fact: 4/5 participants who joined our program reported a better than 80% improvement in life! Wow! (And those who completed all the exercises reported even better results!)

34 So if you re like so many others who are already feeling at least 80% better with just the first three tips, then you may be wondering Okay, Rémy... what s next?

Here s what s next... If today s three simple tips have already made a difference in your perspective, then you may be ready to join The Revolution! and create a life you love!

35 Here s what s next... If today s three simple tips have already made a difference in your perspective, then you may be ready to join The Revolution! and create a life you love! I ve made it as easy as I can by creating a short course to help get you from where you are now to where you want to be. A 30-day journey filled with thought-provoking exercises designed to help you tackle the hard questions that will help you go from breakdown to breakthrough so you can finally, FINALLY get UNstuck! I would love for you to check it out here: Thank you for joining me, and I look forward to hearing your successes! Only $197! The three lessons from today were actually your first three lessons from this amazing ecourse! So you re already on your way!

36 Thank you! My dream for you is to live your passion & purpose to the fullest and take back your exclamation points! Rémy Chaussé, Best-selling author of Living Life As An Exclamation Point! You can grab all 30 tips here: You can reach me directly at: (949)

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