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2 Disclaimer: All the material contained in this book is provided for educational and informational purposes only. No responsibility can be taken for any results or outcomes resulting from the use of this material. While every attempt has been made to provide information that is both accurate and effective, the author does not assume any responsibility for the accuracy or use/misuse of this information. Your are free to give, share and distribute this report to anyone who needs it. All we ask is that you do not change anything in this report. 2 P a g e

3 Are You Making These 7 Biggest Mistakes In Your Long Distance Relationship? Have you been in a long distance relationship that could have worked out really well but ended up screwed because both of you seemed unable to get and express what the other wanted? Or are you currently in a long distance relationship that really feels like this might be the one but are afraid you will end up screwing it like all your previous relationships? Then this is an article that is right up your alley. We all have had ghastly relationships in the past that have, in a way, made us believe we are not meant for a healthy loving relationship. However, everyone deserves love and the odds are always in your favor. So, it is time to take back control of your love life and learn to identify the mistakes that are causing you so much pain. Then, you know what comes next, yup damage control. So, take out your notebook, grab a pen 3 P a g e

4 and start taking notes because we are going down the road from which you will never return alone. If you are in a long distance relationship, or thinking of getting into one, you would/should know this stuff is not easy. Love and relationships are hard work so only enter if you are willing to work for it. If you are determined to make it work, then there is only one rule. Enter without fear and leave without regrets. This doesn t mean that you have to worry about it not working out. On the contrary, it means you are going to try your best and if it still doesn t work out, it wasn t meant to. When you are in love, you feel vulnerable and start feeling defensive. You probably go all psycho-crazy by giving out too much information at one time and then holding it all back, to remedy the slips. Well, no one is blaming you. Long distance relationships can feel like a never-ending rollercoaster, with few smooth and straight tracks and loads of topsy-turvy turns. In order to make it work, you need to be prepared for what is coming up. After all, no one ever went 4 P a g e

5 on a rollercoaster with a cup of coffee and a book to read. If you expect the ride to be bumpy, you will be better prepared for what you are going to face ahead. Here are the quick 7 biggest mistakes that can turn your relationship into a mess. You can find a detailed strategically prepared action plan on how to rectify the mistakes and turn your relationship around in my book, Long Distance Relationship Miracle: How to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work', For more information, visit our website 5 P a g e

6 Mistake Number 1 - Being Too Clingy We all have been guilty of this mistake. There are two kinds of people as a rule, the clingers and the detachers. If there is one of each kind in a relationship, it requires a good amount of hard work to reach a balance where both of you are happy with the relationship. You need to identify the traits of your partner in order to label them as a detacher or clinger. The worst mistake you can make is being too clingy with a detacher. They are going to run so fast, you would not know what just happened. Make sure you have a life of your own and take out the time to connect with them as well. Follow their pattern and reciprocate. 6 P a g e

7 Mistake Number 2 - Being Too Detached So, you are the detacher in the relationship. Your partner is probably whining all the time how you never have enough time for them? Do not give them what they want. There is a certain power over making the other person chase you. That is what keeps the attraction going. However, you should give them just enough to keep them satisfied, yet want more. Mistake Number 3 - Letting Jealousies Take Over So, you have been cheated on before and now you have serious trust issues. This doesn t mean you color every partner as a cheater. Not all men are cheaters and there are probably a thousand other problems in a relationship without letting your jealousies create a thousand new ones. Talk to your partner about your feelings and let them know what ignites them in the first place. This will definitely open the door for your relationship to grow fonder. 7 P a g e

8 Mistake Number 4 - Not Creating Enough Attraction for Your Partner We get it, you are busy and they are busy and yet you want this relationship to work. However, it is not as easy as that. You need to create ways to keep the spark alive in the relationship to make sure it feels new and exciting even after years. Killing excitement and uncertainty from your relationship is a surefire way to kill any attraction they feel for you. In my book, Long Distance Relationship Miracle: How to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work I have a step-by-step plan on how to keep the attraction alive in a relationship. 8 P a g e

9 Mistake Number 5 - Giving Them Everything They Ask For If you have a million-dollar estate, would a hundred dollars hold any value for you? In fact, owing to human nature, as long as it is not taken away from you, your estate will stop making you happy for long. We take things for granted unless we are uncertain about owning them. So, if you give your partners everything they ask for, you are kind of forcing them to take you for granted. Mistake Number 6 -Not Trusting Them The thousands of miles that separate you can be unbearable on both of you. However, they can become harder on you if you do not trust them. This attitude will change your perspective of them and create a lot of unwanted issues. If you are in a relationship, why let trust issues cause problems. Take a leap of faith. Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time. Maya Angelou 9 P a g e

10 Mistake Number 7 - Not Communicating Enough The only thing that keeps the two of you connected is your communication. Calls and texts are the only link between the two of you. Keep it strong but keep it spontaneous. Routines are boring, so add a spark to your relationship by calling them randomly. Make sure to plan exciting activities together. Distance doesn t have to make your relationship any less exciting. Your attitude, at the end of the day, will decide if your relationship will work out or not. Be strong and confident and be sure to believe in your worth. Making your partner the centre of your world is placing too much pressure on them, so take responsibility for your own happiness and keep yourself busy. If you feel you need serious help in saving your relationship, then my book Long Distance Relationship Miracle: How to Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work has all the information, plans and strategies that will help you take immediate action and start seeing results in your relationship, today. You can have a great romance and the 10 P a g e

11 relationship of your dreams, if you learn how to play your cards right. Visit our website for more information about how to make a long distance relationship work. 11 P a g e

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I believe in you, and so does everyone who truly knows you. Trust the wonderful things happening in your life they were meant just for you. You have beautiful gifts and talents. You were born to shine.