The Dirty Talking Bible

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1 The Dirty Talking Bible 1"

2 The Dirty Talking Bible The Dirty Talking Bible Turn Him On, Build Sexual Tension, Keep Him Thinking About You & Massage His Ego Using Dirty Talk By Sean Jameson 2012, All Rights Reserved. 2"

3 This book is copyright 2012 with all rights reserved. It is illegal to distribute, copy, share or to create derivative works from this book in whole or in part. It is also illegal to aid in the copying, distribution, or creating of derivative works of this book without the expressed written permission of the author. If you believe that you have payed for or received a copy of this ebook illegally, then please contact the team at the Bad Girl s Bible at this web address: To find out more about other books and programs from the Bad Girl s Bible use this web address: DISCLAIMER & TERMS OF USE AGREEMENT By purchasing this book, you agree to the following: You are responsible for your own behavior, and none of this ebook is to be considered medical, legal or personal advice. The information contained in this ebook is an opinion and it should be used for personal entertainment purposes only. Therefore, if you wish to apply any idea contained in this ebook, you are taking full responsibility for your actions. The author does not warrant or guarantee the performance, effectiveness or applicability of any sites linked to in this ebook. All links are for entertainment purposes only and are not guaranteed or warranted for content, accuracy or any other implied or explicit purpose. AFFILIATE DISCLAIMER You can assume that any and all hyperlinks throughout this ebook are affiliate links to third party websites and that the author has an affiliate relationship with these third party websites whereby the author is compensated for resulting sales. The hyperlinks in this ebook are in most cases shortened and/or cloaked to hide long and ugly links as well as for functionality and tracking. 3"

4 Introduction" Hi there Thank you for purchasing The Dirty Talking Bible. I really believe that The Dirty Talking Bible is the only resource that you'll ever need on learning how to talk dirty to your man and take your love life (both dating & sex) to levels you never thought possible. I put a huge amount of work into The Dirty Talking Bible and as a result you are reading a complete encyclopedia on how to talk dirty to your man to turn him on, to build sexual tension with him, to massage his ego, to keep him thinking about you and most importantly...to have a lot more fun. I wrote The Dirty Talking Bible for the simple reason that there just isn't a decent resource out there for girls who want to learn how to fulfill their and their man's fantasies using dirty talk. Now you might be thinking that you just bought a magic pill. That just reading The Dirty Talking Bible is going to turn you into a dirty talking goddess. To be honest, this is not how you should look at it. Just reading The Dirty Talking Bible will certainly give you some good ideas, but just reading it is not going to turn you into a dirty talking goddess. To become a true dirty talking goddess, then you need to read The Dirty Talking Bible and actually use the advice that you read. If you read this book but don't apply any of the advice in it, then you are not going to improve at talking dirty that much. But if you read the book and do apply the advice and do keep trying new things, even if some of them make you feel a little awkward or weird or nervous, then you will rapidly improve. I'm not 4"

5 going to sugarcoat it or lie to you and say that every single thing that you try will work perfectly. You'll find that with some guys, certain things work way better than others, while for other guys those same things won t work at all. The key is to find out what works and what doesn't work. Then keep doing the things that work, while trying to avoid doing the things that don't work as well. If you approach learning how to talk dirty to your man with a positive, open attitude and view everything you try as a fun adventure, you are going to improve far more rapidly than if you are closed minded and view learning how to talk dirty as a chore. Using The Dirty Talking Bible... The Right Way" Like with my other books, you'll notice that The Dirty Talking Bible has been broken up into specific chapters. Each chapter is focused on learning a particular dirty talking technique or a particular type of dirty talk (with examples of course). If you try to memorize 15 different techniques or examples and then afterwards try them out on your man, you are inevitably going to trip up. You may be eager and want to try out everything as soon as possible. But if try to do it this way, you will inevitably feel paralyzed trying to figure out which phrases to use and when to use them. A far superior strategy, which will help you to improve much faster is to 'small chunk' your learning. 'Small Chunking' means learning 5"

6 just a little bit at a time, then trying it out on your man until it becomes easy to do. Then you are going to learn another technique or line to use on your man. Once you feel comfortable using that, then add another to your repertoire. And keep slowly adding more and more. If you do this and consistently practice what you ve learned on your man, then you'll find that in the space of a few short months, you'll go from being a complete novice to becoming a dirty talking goddess. He Loves This, But Hates That" Almost everyone has sexual preferences and fetishes. Some guys love anal sex while others are totally against it. Some love being dominant while others prefer being submissive in bed. This is exactly the same when it comes to talking dirty. Your man will love certain aspects of dirty talk, but won t enjoy other aspects. He might get incredibly aroused when you subtly tell him: - I ve got a surprise for you later. But he might find more explicit dirty talk to actually be a turn off. You might discover that when you tell him: - I m going to fuck your brains out later. that he finds it to be a big turn off. The key is discovering what he enjoys and what he dislikes. Then just focus on what he likes and enjoys while discarding the rest. 6"

7 This should be obvious, but unfortunately in the past students have tried to force certain types of dirty talk on their man only for him to really hate it. There is No Magic Pill" Learning how to talk dirty is really fun. Unfortunately though, there is no magic pill that will instantly turn you into a dirty talking goddess. There is no line that will turn him on every single time, there is no sentence that will perfectly build sexual tension with him and there is no text message that will keep him thinking about you into eternity. You won t find it in The Dirty Talking Bible and you certainly won t find it in any of the cheap imitators. Instead you are going to learn a number of techniques, tips, tactics (as well as the lines themselves) that you can use to turn him on, to build sexual tension, to keep him thinking about you and to massage his ego all while having a lot of fun It s actually quite easy to master dirty talking when you follow what I teach in The Dirty Talking Bible, but the book alone is no magic pill. It still takes some effort on your part. The Cook Book Approach To Talking Dirty" If you have read another of my books, The Blow Job Bible, you'll know that I advise you to use it like a cook book. 7"

8 Like a cook book? Yes, like a cook book. You see, when you read a cook book, you don't cook every single recipe in order. You make sure that you know the basic cooking techniques described at the start of the book, then you pick and choose the recipes that look the most interesting to you. You try them, see what works best and then focus on improving your ability to cook the recipes you like the best, while pretty much forgetting about the others. You need to use The Dirty Talking Bible in the same way. You need to make sure that you understand the principles of why you should use dirty talking in your relationship as well as understanding the different types of dirty talk. Then once you understand these basics, start trying out the different techniques and types of dirty talk to find out which ones you and your man enjoy the most. Once you discover what you both enjoy, then it's time to really focus in on becoming a pro at those specific tactics and techniques. But even when you do become a true pro at certain things, keep trying out other ideas that you can potentially add to your arsenal. Don't Fall For This Trap" When people first hear the words, 'Dirty Talking Bible', they often get really excited and start thinking about how to talk filthy and say nasty things to their man. Being really nasty and filthy when using dirty talk is certainly a turn on for lots of guys, but if that's all you see in talking dirty, you are seriously limiting it's power. There is so much more that you can use it for. 8"

9 Please make sure that you fully understand this Talking dirty to your man can involve you saying all sorts of dirty and nasty things, but it doesn't have to always be nasty, horny, pornstar talk. In fact, you'll find that you can be much more subtle and just use normal language when talking dirty to your man and it will usually be even more effective than saying all sorts of crazy things. Expect The Awkwardness" If you have never even tried talking dirty to your man before, then the first few times you do it, you might find it to be quite nervewrecking and possibly even awkward. The key is to not worry about feeling like this. If you want to improve, you just need to 'feel the fear and do it anyway'. It will greatly speed up the learning process for you. There literally is no other way of dealing with this awkwardness/fear/weirdness/whatever you want to call it. You ll notice that by talking dirty even when you are feeling nervous, you become much more relaxed and comfortable the next time you try it. It will give you confidence when you see that there wasn t actually much to be nervous about in the first place. You ll also find that the same process occurs when learning how to give your man a great blow job or when trying a new sex position with him or when you try any other new sex technique or tip for the first time with him. It might feel awkward at first, but when you see how easy it actually is, you will be a lot more confident the next time you try it. 9"

10 Practice Make Perfect" Like I teach in The Blow Job Bible, practice really does make perfect. The only way to get better at something is to practice, practice and then practice some more until you can do it really well. Just like the world's best chess players, ballet dancers and tennis players only got good through a lot of practice, the same is true for talking dirty to your man. Sometimes you ll find it easy and sometimes you ll find it hard to talk dirty, but the most important thing is to keep practicing and trying to improve. If you do, you will get better. But if you give up on it just because it doesn t go perfectly every single time, then you will never improve. The Are No Rules, Only Guidelines" The very last thing that I want talk about before getting into the meat of the book is very important if you want to get the most out of it.. There are no rules, only guidelines. What do I mean by this? You see, throughout the book, I tell you exactly what to do to talk dirty to your man. But like I ve already said, different people enjoy different things. You may find that your man prefers you to be a little more submissive or maybe he prefers you to be really dominant or maybe he wants you to switch between the two or maybe he loves it when you talk like a cartoon character (yes, I have gotten questions on this). 10"

11 In other words, different people enjoy different things. As a result, if you follow the advice I give in The Dirty Talking Bible as rigid laws and rules, you won t get to experience and learn all that much when it comes to talking dirty. In short, you ll be limiting yourself. Instead, if you treat The Dirty Talking Bible as a book of guidelines and advice that you need to experiment with until you find what works best for you and your man (or men), then you will have a far more enjoyable time. So feel free to try new things, experiment with what you read here and have fun To Better Lovemaking, 11"

12 Table Of Contents" (You can click the page numbers to go to each page) The Groundwork 16 The Why..." 16" Building Sexual Tension" 17" Turning Him On" 19" Keep Your Man Thinking About You" 21" Massaging His Ego" 23" It's Exciting & Fun" 25" Finer Details On The Groundwork" 26" It's Not Just The Words 27 Your Body Language" 28" Your Eye Contact" 29" Your Voice Tone" 29" Voice Speed" 30" Voice Volume" 32" Finer Details On It s Not Just The Words" 34" Learning How To Talk Dirty 36 Start Small" 36" It's Time To Get Wordy" 37" Getting Wordier" 39" Getting Really Dirty" 42" Finer Details On Learning How To Talk Dirty" 43" Different Types Of Dirty Talk 46 12"

13 I Want/I Love Statements" 46" Encouragement & Direction" 47" The Pacing Technique" 48" Finer Details On The Different Types Of Dirty Talk" 50" Talking Dirty On The Phone 51 Starting Out" 51" Tell Him What To Do" 53" Get Instructions From Him" 53" Use Toys" 54" Finer Details On Talking Dirty On The Phone" 56" Dirty Text Messages 58 The Idea Behind Dirty Text Messages" 58" A Few Pitfalls On Dirty Text Messages" 59" Finer Details On Dirty Text Messages" 61" Other Places To Use Dirty Talk 62 In public " 62" At Work " 63" At a party " 64" In Private " 65" Facebook, Instant Messaging, " 67" Dirty Talk Via Skype" 68" Finer Details On Other Places To Use Dirty Talk" 69" Dominance/Submission When Talking Dirty 71 Dominant Dirty Talk" 71" 13"

14 Submissive Dirty Talk" 73" Baiting Him Into Being Dominant/Submissive" 74" Finer Details On Dominance/Submission When Talking Dirty" 76" Exploring Fantasies 78 Sharing Your Fantasies" 78" Fantasy Guideline #1" 79" Fantasy Guideline #2" 79" Fantasy Guideline #3" 79" Fantasy Guideline #4" 80" Fantasy Guideline #5" 80" Fantasy Guideline #6" 81" Fantasy Guideline #7" 81" Fantasy Guideline #8" 81" What To Say?" 82" Exploring His Fantasies With Dirty Talk" 85" Finer Details On Exploring Fantasies" 86" Getting Your Man To Talk Dirty 88 The Easy Way" 88" Lead & He ll Reciprocate" 88" Positive Rewarding" 89" Teach Him" 90" Finer Details On Getting Your Man To Talk Dirty" 92" Developing Your Dirty Talking Repertoire 94 Read Erotica" 94" 14"

15 Pornography" 94" Use More Than One Road" 95" Finer Details On Developing Your Dirty Talking Repertoire" 95" What Dirty Talking Is Not "

16 The Groundwork" I know you want the lines but first you need to have the groundwork in place so you understand the different types of dirty talk, each of of which has it s time and place where it s most effective and powerful. Please don t skip this part The Why..." Ok, so lets get down to it. The first thing you must ask yourself is Why? Why should you want to talk dirty to your man? What are the main benefits to talking dirty to him? In other words, What are you going to get out of it? You may have a specific reason in mind, but here are the five most powerful reasons to talk dirty to your man... 1) It builds sexual tension (This is by far the most powerful reason for learning how to talk dirty to your man). 2) It turns him on. 3) It keeps your man thinking about you. 4) It massages his ego. 5) *Optional: It s exciting & fun (I have included this as number five because using dirty talk in your relationship really is fun and exciting) 16"

17 Building Sexual Tension" I have found that building sexual tension is the most powerful thing you can do with dirty talk. It s far more powerful than almost anything else as it can literally make your man obsessed with you and stop him from thinking about any other women but you if you do it right. So how do you build sexual tension with your man? The key is to be indirect and only use it when there is a barrier preventing sex from happening. By saying things to your man that are subtly indirect, it will get your man s brain whirring and trying to figure out what you mean. Saying these things when there is a barrier preventing sex from happening (e.g. you are in work, at a social gathering, not in a private place) will make this effect even stronger. When you are using dirty talk to build sexual tension with your man, you are trying to get your man to think about you in a sexual way and to get him just a little bit aroused. However you are usually going to say these things while in normal conversation, when there is a barrier preventing sex from happening. You won t be using this type of dirty talk in the bedroom. When using dirty talk to build sexual tension with your man, remember this: It s about sexual tension not sex I can t say this enough. You are saying things to slowly build your man up to a state where he is craving you and desperately wants you. This can be over a number of hours or days or sometimes even weeks. 17"

18 Here are some examples to give you an idea about how to build sexual tension with dirty talk: - I just saw something that made me think of you. (Also works great as a SMS text message) - You shouldn t touch me like that when we re out in public, you re making me way too horny - I love it when you wear those jeans. (Or whatever you like him wearing) - If these people weren t around, I would rip your clothes off right now - You re going to have to stop looking at me like that, it s making me really wet - If I didn t have to go to work right now, I would stay here and give you the best blow job you ve ever had. So you might notice a pattern from these phrases: 1) They are not always directly about sex. You are saying things that are often quite vague and not detailed at all. The reason for this is to allow your man s mind to fill in the blanks, to get him thinking about what could possibly happen. Using phrases that get your man thinking about what could possibly happen is crucial if you want to build sexual tension using dirty talk. 2) Not one of these phrases requires you to say anything too raunchy, slutty or nasty to your man. This is great because it means that you never have to worry about saying anything too wild. 18"

19 3) You are usually going to be saying these things when you are NOT in bed. You ll usually be using these phrases during normal conversation with your man and then afterwards you will just transition to something else as if you never said them at all. This is to make it feel natural and relaxed. Meanwhile your man s brain will be in overdrive trying to figure out what you meant by it (or what you didn t mean by it) Okay, so now that I have explained how to use dirty talk to build sexual tension, here are some more example phrases that you can use. - I had a naughty dream about you last night. - I can t wait till we re alone. - Guess what I m wearing underneath my top? - Is it weird that I find it arousing seeing you on top of me, dominating me? - If I didn t have to leave, we would be having some crazy sex, sorry baby Hopefully from this introduction, you can see just how powerful dirty talk can be to build sexual tension. In later chapters, I'm going to show you some more examples that you can use on your man to build sexual tension without sounding too crazy or wild, but I'm also going to show you some examples that are quite wild too Turning Him On" When trying to turn your man on with dirty talk, you need to be more explicit and direct than when you are trying to build sexual tension with him. 19"

20 So here are some example phrases that you can use to turn him on: - I want you right now - I love it when you totally dominate me. - I want to taste your dick in my mouth - Your dick in my ass is one of the best feelings in the world When turning your man on, you will usually be about to have sex or will be actually having sex with him. This is very different to when you are building sexual tension with him. You will notice that when using dirty talk to turn him on, you don t have to be really explicit or sound like a pornstar. You can still talk dirty without sounding too nasty. Although you will find that sometimes it s really hot to talk really, really nasty. My advice is to start off with less crazy and wild dirty talk like the following examples: - It feels so good when you re on top. - Sex with you is incredible. - You feel so good - I love feeling you penetrate me - I love just having your body next to mine. - Hearing you breath and moan in my ear is the best feeling in the world. To be honest, these sentences are on the very tame side of dirty talk, but they are good for when you are starting to learn how to talk dirty to your man as they are so easy to use and will never make you or your man feel uncomfortable. 20"

21 Once you and your man are both comfortable with this fairly tame dirty talk, then it s time to take it to the next level. This means that it s time to start getting more raunchy and naughty. Try these examples to get a flavor of what s possible: - I love it when you fuck me like a whore. - Keep fucking me like that. - I want to taste your cum. - Your dick feels so dam good baby - Harder, Harder, HARDER - You re going to make cum so hard - Jesus Christ, you feel incredible - Keep hitting that spot - Fuck it feels so good You ll find that the more you talk dirty to your man, the easier it gets. It really is a case of Practice Makes Perfect. Keep Your Man Thinking About You" From talking with many of my students, I have noticed a disturbing trend. Many have had the same recurring problem of meeting a great guy, only for him to slowly but surely grow distant and then their relationship with him eventually crumbles and then falls apart over a number of months. This has happened to me too in the past and to be honest it feels just awful. I think the worst part is that creeping dread that the person you really care about is slowly slipping out of your hands and caring about you less and less with each passing day. 21"

22 The main reason is usually because the spark in your relationship has faded it's just no longer there. The spark fades because either you or your man stop getting that excited feeling each time you hear your phone ring or buzz. You stop looking forward to getting a message from them. Or you stop getting those excited & nervous feelings you usually get when going on a date with them. This is exactly why I have developed a type of dirty talk what will keep your man constantly thinking about you. It s quite subtle and works best sent as a text message or through Facebook/ , but it can also work well when you are just talking and flirting with him. So before giving you examples, it s important to remember that this type of dirty talk is to keep your man thinking about you, not to immediately turn him on. Try these examples: - I have a little surprise for you later x (Works great as an SMS text message) - I d blush if you knew what I was thinking of right now. - I m going to make you melt in my mouth when I get home. - I just saw something that make me think of you...guess what? (Also works well as an SMS text message) - I wish you could see what I m wearing...hint...it s hot (Perfect as a text message/ ) All of these examples work great as texts or private Facebook messages or s. They are all a little vague while also being a little sexual too. Being vague yet slightly sexual will keep you on 22"

23 your man s brain for hours, wondering what it is you are talking about and what you mean by it. In many ways this type of dirty talk is very similar to the dirty talk that you would use to build sexual tension with him. The only difference is that it s usually even less sexual. Massaging His Ego" One great reason to talk dirty to your man is to massage his ego. Massaging his ego makes him feel good and what man doesn t want to be around a girl that makes him feel good? But why does dirty talk massage your man's ego? It's quite simple All men want to believe that they are sexually attractive. They want to believe that they can turn on almost any woman. And they want to believe that they can bring out her wild side. Talking dirty to your man is a great way to explicitly show your man that you do find him sexually attractive, that he turns you on and that he is bringing out your wild side. So how do you massage his ego with dirty talk? Some people describe it as: Telling him what he wants to hear. This is almost a perfect description but it s missing something important. A better way to describe it is: 23"

24 Telling him something BELIEVABLE & SINCERE that he wants to hear. It s really important that he truly believes what you are telling him. There is no point in saying something ridiculous and totally unbelievable to your man as he will usually be able to tell if you are just making it up. So try using these examples on him: - I love it when you fuck me like that. - I want to get on my knees and give you a nice long blow job. - I love it when you slap my ass. (Or something else that you like him doing when you have sex) - I get so wet when you re aggressive in bed. - Nothing feels better than having you deep inside me - I love feeling your dick in the palm of my hand. - I feel so small when you hold me. You'll notice that a lot of dirty talk aimed at massaging your man's ego involves using 'I love' & 'I want' statements which I talk more about in Different Types Of Dirty Talk. Remember, if you want to effectively massage your man's ego with dirty talk, you need to make sure that what you are saying is believable and sincere. So avoid saying things like, - Your dick is massive, it s the biggest I ve ever seen 24"

25 Saying something like this sounds ridiculous if your man doesn t have a particularly big dick. But if he is particularly well hung, then feel free to say it. The following questions will hopefully give you more ideas on how to massage his ego: What parts of his body do you like the most? What techniques do you adore that he does in bed? What kind of clothes does your man look sexiest in? It's Exciting & Fun" You only live once. It's important to make it exciting and fun. Otherwise, you aren't going to have a good one. Talking dirty to your man is a great way to make your life (& sex life) way more interesting, exciting and fun for both of you. It spices up any conversation and you'll find that while it certainly turns your man on, builds sexual tension with him and keeps him thinking about you, it will actually have the same effect on you too. And what's not exciting about that? When you combine talking dirty to your man along with improving your other sex skills, like learning new sex positions and how to give your man a great blow job, then you will find that your sex life becomes more fun than you ever imagined An Additional Note On Fun: Remember that when you are using dirty talk with your man, it's supposed to be light-hearted and fun for both of you. You are not going to be a drill sergeant instructing your man to get turned on or commanding him to think about you 25"

26 Finer Details On The Groundwork" 1) Aren t there other reasons why I should learn how to talk dirty to my man? My Advice: There absolutely are You may find that when you talk dirty it turns you on too. You may find that talking dirty is a really fun shared experience between you and your man that nobody else gets to experience. You might even find that talking dirty is a great way to explore fantasies with each other (I cover this in the Exploring Fantasies chapter). Rather than spending the entire book explaining every single reason why you should talk dirty, I just wanted to concentrate on the main reasons. If you want to learn how to talk dirty for a reason that I haven t mentioned above, then feel free to do that. Like I said in the Introduction, there are no rules, only guidelines. 26"

27 It's Not Just The Words" Now that we have talked about why you should talk dirty to your man, I want to explain to you why you need to think about more than just the words when talking dirty to him. This is vital to understand (and do), yet so many people get tripped up at this stage. They have a few bad experiences because they focus on only the words and then never want to try talking dirty ever again. To talk dirty properly you need to focus on the verbals (the actual lines) just as much as your non-verbals (your body language, eye contact, voice tone, voice volume, etc.) I'm going to describe two situations to you. In both, I'm going to use the same dirty talking phrase. One is the right way to talk dirty, the other is the wrong way. Scenario 1 - You slowly walk towards your man, maintaining eye contact throughout, with a sly smile on your face. Then as you get closer, you gracefully lean in towards him, brush passed his cheek and seductively whisper in his ear, while accentuating every word, I want to fuck your brains out. Then you slowly pull back so that you are now facing each other and give him a kiss on his lips, before saying, "But not right now." Then you turn around and slowly walk away. Scenario 2 - You quickly shuffle up to your man while staring at the ground. Then you lean in towards him and loudly say in a monotone voice, "I want to fuck your brains out." Then you pause for a few seconds. Then in the same loud, monotone voice you inform him, "But not right now." Then you turn around and pretty much run away 27"

28 You've used the same words in both Scenario 1 & Scenario 2, but your non-verbals were completely different. Which is more sexy? Obvious answer, right? Scenario 1 is way more sexy compared to Scenario 2. In fact, Scenario 2 would turn off most guys and probably make them less attracted to you too. The reason It isn't just about the words you use, it's also about your non verbals: Your Body Language Your Eye Contact Your Voice Tone Your Voice Speed Your Voice Volume Your Body Language" Your body language plays a very important role when talking dirty to your man. If you are awkward and closed up when talking dirty, then for the most part it's going to be a lot less sexy. But on the other hand it's going to be a lot hotter if: You slow your movements right down. You face your man when talking dirty to him. 28"

29 You are relaxed when talking dirty (as opposed to being stressed and fidgety). You smile slyly at your man as you talk. But there is still a lot of room to experiment and adapt if you are nervous or a little awkward: It can be really sexy if you look over your shoulder (while turned away from your man) as you deliver your line. Sometimes being shy and bashful while talking dirty to your man can be hot. It's hot sometimes, but being shy and bashful when delivering your line every single time is going to eventually lose it's appeal. Your Eye Contact" Eye contact can act like a multiplier when talking dirty to your man. If you can confidently make eye contact with him while talking dirty, you will notice that it has a much stronger effect than if you were staring at the ground or somewhere else. It basically shows him that you really mean it when you say it. However, if you are whispering something in his ear, then obviously it's going to be impossible to look at him in the eye as you say it. Your Voice Tone" Your voice tone is 'how your voice sounds'. Does it sound deep and soulful like Barry White or high pitched like Minnie Mouse or seductive and feminine like Marilyn Monroe? Your voice tone plays a really crucial role when talking dirty. I hate the idea of telling you to act more feminine, but to be perfectly 29"

30 honest, a more feminine voice will almost always work better for turning your man on and building sexual tension with him. Try talking dirty to yourself using a more feminine voice tone than you usually talk with: - I want you so bad - I love how you make me feel. - Slap my ass baby Now try it with your normal voice. You may think your more feminine voice sounds faintly ridiculous, but the fact is that men will find it a lot hotter. Note: I'm not saying that you should use a more feminine voice tone when having a conversation with your man. I'm saying that you should only use it when talking dirty. That way, anytime your man hears you using that voice, he will start associating it with dirty talk, sex and getting intimate with you. Voice Speed" When talking dirty to your man, you'll find that varying your voice speed has some really great benefits. When you are not actually having sex, but building sexual tension and trying to keep him thinking about you, it's better to slow your voice speed right down. It makes what you say have more weight and power. 30"

31 But when you are getting sexual with your man and getting more passionate, try speeding up how fast you talk. It will make everything a lot hotter. The key here is to experiment with how fast you are talking and see what works best for you. Obviously your goals will change: Maybe you want to show your man that you are getting caught up in the moment and that he's really turning you on (in which case you will probably be talking very quickly), or maybe you want to build sexual tension with him (in which case you will be talking a lot slower). Turning Him On Examples: - I want to feel every inch of you pound my pussy - Harder Harder Harder Building Sexual Tension Examples: - I m wearing something that I think you ll really like to see later. (Don t forget to smile slyly after saying this) - If you can guess what color my panties are, then I will do something very special for you tonight? (Optionally give him only three chance to guess. A fun way to cheat at this is by not wearing any panties at all) - Every time you touch my ass, I get shivers down my spine. 31"

32 Voice Volume" How loud your voice is also plays an important role. The same line can have two very different meanings depending on how loud you say it and when you say it. Whispering - The easiest way to talk dirty to your man is to lean in slowly towards him and whisper in his ear. This way you don't need to worry much about your body language or looking him the eye as you say it. The other added benefit is that you can do this practically anywhere. You can do it at a party while standing right beside other people which is awesome for building sexual tension. Or any public place for that matter. Try whispering one of these dirty lines to your man, when you are both together in public: - I've got a surprise for you later. - When we re alone, I m going to show you some skills I ve been practicing with my mouth - I bet you can't guess what I'm thinking of doing to you right now - If these people weren't here, I'd jump you right here, right now. Or you can try whispering in private, when you are both alone to turn your man on. If you have never tried talking dirty before, then I strongly suggest that you start with whispering as it's a lot easier than being loud. You also have to lean in towards his ear which means that you don t have to worry about making eye contact as you say it. 32"

33 Normal Volume - It can be incredibly powerful when you say something dirty to your man in at your regular, everyday voice volume when you are both out in public as well as in private. It's especially powerful if you say something very dirty to him and then just continue on with your conversation as normal as if nothing happened. It will have your man drooling. Try these examples: - Those jeans make your ass look so hot where did you get them? - I wore this skirt especially for you. I hope you like the view. - I m going to be thinking about you when I'm in the shower I hope you don t mind? Really Loud - If you want to really show your man how much you are enjoying yourself, turn him on or massage his ego, then talking really loudly or even screaming will do just that. It's perfect for showing him that you are losing yourself in the moment. Obviously, these examples are best used when you are both alone and somewhere private: - Fuck Me Fuck Me - You feel so good baby - Keep fucking me like that, I m going to cum - Yes, Yes, Yes Like I always say, variation is key. So make sure to constantly change how loud you are with your man. This is good for both of you as the variation is a lot more exciting than using the same volume over and over again. 33"

34 Which Volume, When? You will notice that you can whisper when talking dirty to your man or if you like you can shout. It s up to you. The most important thing that you need to understand is the outcome that you ll get from each volume. In general, talking dirty in a quiet whisper is best for building sexual tension and keeping him thinking about you, while being loud and noisy when talking dirty is best for turning him on and massaging his ego. However if you want to keep things interesting, then definitely think about changing between all three volumes. Finer Details On It s Not Just The Words" 1) There are only three different volumes that I can talk dirty at? Is that all? My Advice: Of course not. You can talk dirty as loud as you want. But in general when talking dirty, you ll find that you are speaking at one of three volumes: in a whisper or at your normal, everyday volume or at a very loud volume where you re really vocal and are practically shouting. 2) I don t feel comfortable being really loud when talking dirty to my man, is this a major problem? My Advice: Absolutely not. You can still massively turn your man on when whispering or using your normal voice. It s just that being really loud when talking dirty is the easiest way to turn him on. 34"

35 If you are not comfortable doing something, then don t feel like you have to. I always advise people to try everything at least once before making up their mind as to whether it s for them or not. 3) Are there other things I should focus on? My Advice: I have covered the most important things above, but yes there are still more things that you should think about when talking dirty to your man. Fashion is one that comes to mind. How you dress does play quite an important role when talking dirty. It s obviously going to be a lot hotter for him if you dress the part. 4) You ve covered a lot here Sean. How am I supposed to remember all these non-verbal aspects of talking dirty? My Advice: The fact is that you don t have to remember everything. Like I said in the Using The Dirty Talking Bible The Right Way section, you just need to small chunk your learning. So don t try to remember everything all in one go. Just take one or two aspects that I have covered here at a time and try them out on your man. Once you have mastered them, move on to learning and mastering another one or two more aspects. And so on. 35"

36 Learning How To Talk Dirty" If you have never even tried talking dirty before with your man, then it can be a really daunting task to suddenly start doing it. I want to show you how to go from never talking dirty before to becoming a dirty talking pro. First I am going to teach you how to talk dirty in bed when getting sexual with your man, then in subsequent chapters, I'm going to show you how to talk dirty outside of the bedroom (on the phone, , SMS text messages, in public). Instead of starting off with learning long phrases, said in situations where it can be potentially very awkward, here is the approach that I advise you take... Start Small" The easiest way to start talking dirty to your man is to start small. So small in fact, that anyone can do it. The first task that you need to perform is simply moaning and breathing deeper than usual when getting sexual with your man. So don't even think about using words just yet. Start by moaning when he kisses your neck, when he caresses your breasts and when he lowers his hand towards you crotch. All you need to do is simply let out a sigh or moan. - Mmmmmmmmmmm - Ahhhhhhhhh - Ohhhhhhhhh 36"

37 - Hhhmmmmmmmmm It's that simple, you don't need to be loud about it either, just a gentle moan or sigh. Try it once or twice with your man, the next time you are getting intimate with him. You'll notice that you may feel like sighing or moaning anyway, which makes it incredibly easy to do. Another thing that you'll notice is that your moaning and sighing will turn your man on a lot. After moaning and sighing on a good few separate occasions, it's time to get a little louder and more vocal...then once you are relatively confident doing that, it s time to step it up... It's Time To Get Wordy" Ok, so after you try moaning and sighing a few times (2-3 separate occasions) with your man, you need to start moving on to actually talking dirty. Again it's not actually going to be that difficult. To start off, you are just going to be using single words with your man. - Yessss - Yeaaaahhhh - Woooowww - Fuck - Jesus - Harder - Faster - Baby 37"

38 - God The Dirty Talking Bible - Deeper When you are with your man and you are both starting to fool around, whether he is simply touching you or you are actually having sex, it's time to start moving towards using single words. So maybe he is doing something that you really enjoy, like hitting a really nice spot during sex. You'll naturally be breathing a little deeper anyway if you are really enjoying it. While breathing deeper, start to moan like I taught you in the previous section. As you are moaning, gently start to whisper, "Wow" or "Fuck" or "Yes" in his ear. But the first time you try this, only choose one word to say to him. Trying to remember 10 different words while having sex is a recipe for getting confused. And when you are confused, then you are a lot more likely to mess things up. You don't have to be particularly loud either, simply whispering is enough. You can even say it in a moan. After whispering it a few times to your man, try saying it a little louder. No need to scream, but do try making it more than just a whisper. Up to this stage, everything may have seemed completely easy and simple to perform without feeling nervous at all. But trying to raise your voice often feels like a tricky task for some the first time they try it. 38"

39 I don't want to sound like a football coach, but it's really important that you raise your voice anyway, regardless of how nervous or awkward you feel. Once you do it a few times, you'll realize that it's actually really easy and you won't be so nervous doing it in the future. But if you chicken out and don't do it, then you will be forever stuck wondering what it's like to really talk dirty to your man. So as hard as you might find it, my only advice is to say it anyway (even if you feel faintly ridiculous) as it will make it easier the next time you try it. Once you do say it, you'll see that it wasn't really that hard. Getting Wordier" Once you've tried different single words on your man and said them repeatedly, in more than a whisper, then it's time to take it to the next logical step. Its time to start using short sentences (about 2-4 words long). Here are a few examples: - I love your cock - Keep fucking me - Fuck me harder - I love your body. - You feel so good. - Keep going. - I want you deeper - Just like that. - Fuck me 39"

40 - You're so good. - Your dick feels incredible. - I m getting so wet The Dirty Talking Bible - I m going to cum Using these examples, it's pretty easy to make up your own based on them. But knowing 50 different phrases to say to your man is not going to help right now. It's actually going to leave you confused trying to remember which one to use in the heat of the moment. A better strategy is to simply choose one or two phrases to practice with first. So choose one or two phrases to try on your man. Preferably choose the ones that you feel most comfortable saying to him. Got them? Now quietly say each of them to yourself a few times until you are saying them in a sexy voice. No need to shout, just whispering them to yourself is enough. Make sure to repeat each phrase at least 30 times so that it's ingrained and easy to remember. Once you ve done this, then it's time to actually use them. The next time you are are having sex with your man (or deep into foreplay), you are going to use them, but not straight away You're going to build up to using each of them. You are going to start by moaning and sighing a little bit before incorporating some single words like, "Fuck" or "Faster", then after doing this for a few minutes, use one of the slightly longer phrases. Just whisper it in his ear, "Your cock feels incredible" or "Keep fucking me". 40"

41 Then afterwards just start moaning and sighing again. It's that easy Once you feel fairly comfortable using one set of phrases on your man, you need to try using other phrases on him. If you do this repeatedly, you will quickly develop a bank of different sentences, lines and phrases to use on him. But don't just use the ones that I've given you here. Try to use your imagination and come up with own phrases. As well as this, you need to mix up your dirty talk. Sometimes you need to just moan and sigh, sometimes you will only be using single words and sometimes you will be using short phrases. The key is to mix it up to keep it interesting for both you and your man. When you have mastered using many different short phrases, you will be ahead of 90% of girls who want to learn how to talk dirty to their man. So when you are talking dirty to your man using these first three techniques, you could be saying something like: - Ohhhh, ahhhh, oooooh - Yes - That feels incredible - Mmmmmmmm - Aaaahhhh - Keep fucking me - Ohhh - Yeaaahhh - It feels so good 41"

42 I know that it sounds faintly ridiculous reading it alone, but it sounds much hotter when you are actually having sex with your man. Getting Really Dirty" Once you are comfortable using short phrases and saying them in more than a whisper, it's time to take it a step further, a step towards being really dirty It's time to start using much longer phrases. Here are a few examples: - You re going to make me cum so hard - I love how your cock feels inside me - I wish you could just fuck me all day long - Jesus Christ baby, I'm going to cum, I'm going to cum - I want to feel you pound me - I just want to be your little slut - I want to feel you cum inside me baby. If you are comfortable using the short dirty phrases that I have given you previously, then you'll find these longer, dirtier phrases quite easy to graduate to. The key to using them properly is just following the same instructions that I gave for learning & using the short phrases. Choose one or a maximum of two phrases at first. Memorize them. Then repeat each one 30 times to yourself so that you fully remember them. Now all you need to do is integrate them with all the other dirty talk that you've learned: 42"

43 Moaning & Sighing Single Words The Dirty Talking Bible 2-4 Word Phrases You only need to say each phrase a few times to your man when you have sex, while also making sure to use the other techniques that you've learned beforehand. Don t keep using the same phrase over and over again, otherwise it will sound rehearsed and a little weird to your man. This is by far the easiest way to learn how to talk dirty to your man. The truth is, there is no single magic pill technique that will take you from quiet and shy in the bedroom to dirty-talking-nymph. It's a process, but fortunately it's a really quick process if you follow the steps above. Finer Details On Learning How To Talk Dirty" 1) Do I need to constantly talk dirty to my man while we are having sex? My Advice: Here's the thing: You don't have to talk dirty at all if you don't want to. You should never feel forced into doing anything that you don't want to. And it's important that you are with a guy that respects you and your wishes. But most guys adore dirty talk and find it to be a real turn on in the bedroom. And I'm guessing that you bought this book to learn how to talk dirty, right? 43"

44 So on to the question: Do you need to constantly talk dirty during sex? Absolutely not. In fact if you did if would be weird and maybe even something that would turn off your man. Most of the time you will literally just be sighing and moaning. But you ll also be using the single word phrases quite often too. The 2-4 word phrases should be used less often while the longer, more specific phrases should be used even less frequently. This is not a hard and fast rule. Feel free to experiment. Like I say in the introduction: There are no rules, only guidelines. So use my advice as a guideline and see what works best for you and your man. 2) Sean, I'm still really nervous about talking dirty to my man, is there an easier way? My Advice: There are a number of easier ways to talk dirty to your man if you are feeling a little nervous about it. The easiest is to turn off the lights so that you are in darkness when talking dirty. You'll find that this takes some (but not all) of the pressure off talking dirty. Another fabulous way to make yourself more relaxed and even a little excited about talking dirty is to have a glass of wine or two before you talk dirty to your man. Don't get totally drunk or wasted, just tipsy. For some this takes one glass, for others, they need two glasses. 44"

45 If you are still feeling anxious or nervous, then I'm sorry to say that the only way you are going to get over your nerves is by just doing it anyway, no matter how nervous you are. Once you try it, you'll instantly discover that it's not that hard at all and more importantly, you'll discover that your man really likes it too 3) I ve never talked dirty before to my man. What will he think if I suddenly start talking dirty to him? My Advice: If you have been in a relationship for a good while (at least three months) and then you all of a sudden start talking dirty to your man, he will most likely be very excited. But a small percentage of guys may be curious as to why you have suddenly started talking dirty. If he seems concerned or asks you about it, then the easiest thing to do is just tell him: - I bought a book to learn how to talk dirty, I hope you don t mind. Most men will be super-happy that you are learning how to be great in bed. But you can also try another line that is great for massaging his ego (but doesn t mention The Dirty Talking Bible): - I don t know. You just bring it out in me. I hope you don t mind. 45"