Intend Your Way to Abundance. Christy Whitman

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1 Tammy Lawman: Hello. I d like to welcome you to another fabulous session of the Intention Event. We re here to help you get clear on what you want and then give you the top 24 tools, techniques, and systems so you can get it. My name is Tammy Lawman, and I m your host. You re in for a real treat today. We have a spectacular woman on the line with us today. Her name is. She s an in-demand life coach and transformational leader, and she s the CEO and founder of the Quantum Success Coaching Academy. She has a 12-month coaching certification program for the Law of Attraction. Christy has helped thousands of women and men around the world achieve their goals through her empowerment seminars, speeches, coaching sessions, and products. Her message reaches over 50,000 people a month, and she has been quoted in Seventeen magazine, Woman s World, Woman s Day, Teen Vogue, The Star Ledger and The Knot magazine. Also, as a certified Law of Attraction coach and trainer with t. Harv Eker s Peak Potentials Training, her work has been promoted by and featured with bestselling authors like Marianne Williamson, Wayne Dyer, Zig Ziglar, Brian Tracy, Neal Donald Walsch, Abraham-Hicks and Peggy McColl. She currently lives in Montreal with her husband, and she is a regular instructor at the Learning Annex in Manhattan. I would like to extend a warm welcome to Christy Whitman. : Thank you. It s great to be here, Tammy. Tammy Lawman: Christy, tell us a little about your background and what your story is. How did you get involved with helping people transform their lives? : It isn t something I sought to do. That s for sure. About 13 years ago I was in a very dark place in my life. It was one of those things where literally everything in my life was not working. I was $60,000 in debt. If you ve ever been $5,000 in debt, it feels heavy. Sixty-thousand dollars in debt feels like the weight of the world. I quit my job because I couldn t stand doing it anymore. I had no passion. I would feel myself get drained from doing my job. I quit my job. I had broken up with the last bad boy I ever dated. I always attracted the bad guys. Because of transferring to California for this bad guy, I literally had no support system around me. I had no friends. I didn t even have anybody I could room with in California. Because the cost of living was so high and I was $60,000 in debt, didn t know anybody, and didn t have a job, I had to rent a room in a house owned by a very strange woman.

2 Because of all of this, I was about 30 pounds overweight. For me, that s a lot of weight because I m not even 5 2. With five pounds on me, you could tell a difference. At 30 pounds, I was huge. I was just not happy. All aspects of my life were bad. I was on my knees praying. I said, What am I going to do? My life is horrible. This is not what I signed up for. The Law of Attraction says that what you put out and ask for, it is given. It comes to you. I met a wonderful woman who taught me about the universal laws. She taught me about the Law of Attraction and how your thoughts really do create your reality. She started a process of meditation with me so that I could apply the information. Literally, my life started changing. I was recruited by a great company. I was making great money and was out of debt within three years. I met a wonderful guy who I was in an eight-year relationship with. I reduced my weight very quickly and effortlessly. Things started turning around for me. About five years after that I went through a major self-awareness and went deeper with my spirituality. I had been applying the universal laws and having great success in changing my life, but it was during this time that the idea for my book, Perfect Pictures came to me. I was seeing how in a lot of areas in my life I had expected perfection. It was just never enough. Of course, when you are working with the Law of Attraction and focusing on what is not enough, you re going to get more of what s not enough. No matter what I did and no matter what I created, nothing was ever good enough. I was never happy. I was never satisfied. I was meditating one night and the book title and the book cover came to me. That night I went to sleep and I woke up at 1:05 in the morning with all of the information in my head. It was as if the first sentence and first paragraph and first chapter were being downloaded to me. I got up and wrote down what I was hearing. I thought, This is great information. I ll read it later. The second night at 1:05 in the morning I wrote the second chapter. For seven days in a row this happened to me. At 1:05 in the morning I was awoken by a voice giving me all of the information. I ed a very well-known author who I happened to see at a workshop a few weeks before. I said, How do you get a book published? She told me to find a literary agent, and I did. I had the book published. Once the book was published, I started speaking on the content of my book at churches and spiritual book stores. People asked me, Do you coach? I thought, Coach? What s that? I thought of football and cheerleading coaches. I had never heard of life coaching.

3 I looked into it and got some training. It turns out that I was pretty good at it. I wasn t charging people, but they were getting a lot of changes in their lives. I found that it was really rewarding just to see people take the information I was teaching them and transform their lives. That became my ambition and my goal. I worked in Corporate America until I was able to go fulltime. That s been about four years now. Since then I ve been living my dream life. Because I have applied this information, I live with the man of my dreams. My husband is amazing. I have a healthy one-year-old baby boy and another one on the way. I did have my ideal body until I got pregnant. I m completely financially free. I m very abundant. I live in my dream home. More importantly, I have a job or career where I get to empower and inspire people on a daily basis. Now at the Coaching Academy I get to do that with coaches. It s great because there are people whose lives are going to change and be affected by my teaching, and I m never going to meet or touch them. It s very rewarding. It s amazing that I came from a place where I was very negative and things definitely were not working in my life. I took this information and applied it, and my life changed. It wasn t just me, but thousands of my coaching clients. That s my story in a nutshell. Tammy Lawman: That s an amazing story. I m sure a lot of people can probably relate to where you started from. Some of them may be there now. Some of them may be in a different place or situation. You wanted to talk today about how to intend your way to abundance. Can you explain what you mean by that? : Yes, absolutely. When you are clear about what you want, that is when you can start moving forward in that direction. When you have clarity, you can intend for, This is what I want. I want to have abundance. Once you have that intention already put out there Abraham-Hicks talks about this the greater part of you becomes that. There s a desire in you to have more abundance, and you intend for this abundance. The bigger part of you then already moves in the direction of becoming abundant and creates that for you. Now it is up to you to do the work to step into that abundance. Intention is the first step in anything that you do or anything that you re trying to create. It is having clarity, and once you have that clarity, you can really intend for what you want. Tammy Lawman: Why is it so important to have the clarity?

4 : The example I give is that you go into a restaurant and tell the waiter, I want the chicken. There are 40 dishes of chicken on the menu. The waiter is not going to know what to bring you. Believe me, I m not saying that the universe is a waiter, but it s the same kind of situation. For an example, you re trying to attract an ideal partner. If you re not clear about the kind of qualities that you want, the universe is not going to know what to bring you. Another example I give as well is that my husband and I just built our house. We were looking in the backyard thinking about what we wanted to do with it. I said, If you could make anything you want, even something totally outrageous, what would you want? He said, I d like a pool of money in the backyard. I said, A pool of money? He said, Yes. I said, If I m the universe and I m going to get you a pool of money, I wouldn t know where to start. Do you want a swimming pool or a little pop-up pool? Do you want an Olympic-sized pool? What kind of pool do you want? How deep do you want it? How shallow do you want it? What kind of money do you want? Do you want pennies or dollar bills? What kind of money are you talking about? It s a silly example, but it s an example. If I was going to surprise him and get him a pool of money what if I got him a little pop-up pool and I put pennies in it? Would he be satisfied with that? Is that the kind of money he s talking about? Is that the kind of pool he s talking about? It s hard for the universe to help you, to support you and bring you what you want if you as a deliberate creator are not clear on what your intentions are. Tammy Lawman: That s very true. Like you said, your idea of a pool of money might be different from his idea of a pool of money. : Exactly. Tammy Lawman: Is there something that people can do to figure out exactly what they want and how to clarify it? : Yes, absolutely. There are a lot of different processes that you can use. One of my favorite processes is asking yourself three questions. I m going to give you those three questions now. If I were all of you, I would write them down. It s something I use on a daily basis. The first one is, What do I want? You have to ask yourself, What do I want? If you don t know what you want, a lot of times it s easier to write down what you don t want. We re so focused in our society to say, I don t want this. We re complaining about things. That doesn t look good. I don t like that. It s great to write a list of the things that you don t want and then quickly shift and ask yourself, If I don t want this, what do I want?

5 For example, if you re buying a new house and you re currently living in a house, you can think, I need to figure out what I want when I look for a new house. Maybe your closets are too small. I don t want small closets anymore. What do you want? I want large closets. I want a walk-in closet in the master bedroom. I want to have this number of closets. Therefore, you re getting clarity based on what you don t want. Once you know what you don t want you can then say, What do I want? Have a list of all the things you want. What do you want? Do you want an ideal partner? Think of many past relationships, and think of the qualities you didn t like in your partners. He was lazy. He wasn t motivated. He was possessive. He was controlling. Next, ask yourself, He was controlling. What do I want? I want someone who is easygoing, who trusts me, and who s fun to be with. Ask yourself, What don t I want? From there you can get the clarity to say, What do I want? First, ask, What do I want? Secondly, ask why you want it. When you focus on the why, it really starts the energetic attraction. It puts it in place. Now you re getting into the feelings of why you want something. I don t care how much you visualize or how many lists you write if you don t get into the feeling place. That s where the energy moves. I think that s where a lot of people get hung up in working with the Law of Attraction and trying to create the life that they want. They re visualizing, but they re not getting into what it will feel like to attract the abundance, their ideal partner the job, the house, or whatever they want. They are in the mental part of it, which is a great first step. Then you have to get into the emotional body. That s where the energy shifts. What do I want? Why do I want it? How am I going to feel when I get it? It s important to identify why you want what you want in the first place. In our society we think, Once I get that house, then I will be happy. Once I find that partner, then I ll feel connected. Once I get a baby, then I ll feel fulfilled. That s the opposite of how to create in a deliberative, creative world. You first need to feel the feeling. Once you own that feeling, then you can attract the things outside of you. You can attract that perfect house, partner, job, abundance, or whatever it is you want. What do I want? Why do I want it? How do I want to feel? Identify it. I want to feel successful, abundant, connected, and loved. I want to feel whatever it is. Then, step into the feeling. Really get into the feeling of what it feels like.

6 Tammy Lawman: Christy, is this important when someone s going through this and asking these questions of themselves? You have to be really clear on it, but what about someone who says, I kind of want this, but I m not sure exactly. I can t totally visualize it? How would you help that person move that process along to get clearer on what they want to do? : There s a process I use and I teach people how to use from the coaching certification program. I do this with my clients. It s a process called Future Visioning. There is no time and space. Quantum physics has proven that. Our past, our present, and our future all exist right now. If there is a future that you want to create or a situation that you want to create, you can actually pick from thousands of possible future selves that are already living right now or already existing. They re all changing based on the decisions we make, the energy we put out, and the thoughts we think. You can connect with that future self that has the thing you re wondering about. Do I really want this? You can actually connect with that future self that has the relationship that looks like this versus one that looks like that. Try it on like a costume and feel what it feels like. That helps to give you a lot of clarity on creating what you want. Tammy Lawman: What happens if you change your mind along the way? Is it okay to do that? : Of course. We re evolving, growing beings. We re never finished with anything. I love the book Don t Sweat the Small Stuff. We re going to die with an inbox. Nothing is ever done. It s never completed. I think so many people are afraid to make a decision. It s one of the reasons they don t get clear. They think, If I make this decision, it will be final, and I can never do anything about it. No. If you buy a house, you can sell the house and find another house. If you get into a relationship with a partner, you can get out of the relationship and find another partner. If you accept a job, you can quit that job and do something else. If you move to this city, you can move to a different city. Nothing is ever final. I think a lot of people fear that the decision needs to be perfect. There is no decision that will ever be perfect. There are things that come close. Again, we re growing, evolving beings. Isn t it true that when we finally get what we want, we want something else? When I was single and was looking for the man of my dreams all I wanted was to have him in my life. That was a huge priority. Once I got him, I thought, Now I want to create a house with you. Let s create our dream home.

7 Then we created the dream home. Once the dream home was created, I thought, Let s create a baby. We had a baby. I thought, Now that the baby has come, let s create another baby. It s an evolving, growing thing. It doesn t mean that it s wrong and you shouldn t want and desire. We are creative beings. It s our nature to desire and want to create. In the process, you learn what you want and what you don t want. You learn what the contrast is. You think, I created this, but I see now that I don t really like that. Think about dating. That s what dating is anyway. You re dating one person and figuring out that you don t like a certain quality about someone. You think, Now I m clear about what I do want. When you attract the next person in your life, you will think, Now I m little clearer. Maybe they will show up with a totally different characteristic. Maybe they were possessive and you never had that in a boyfriend or girlfriend before. You realize, That doesn t feel good. I don t want to have someone who is possessive. I want someone who is easygoing and who gives me freedom. Then there s the next relationship. It s a growing and evolving thing. Tammy Lawman: I think it s important to point that out to people. I ve worked with people who want to have their own businesses. They ll work on their websites. Three months later the website is still not ready because they think, It s not perfect yet. I m not going to let it go. I m not putting it out there until it s perfect. In the meantime, they ve wasted three months of opportunity. They might have had it right, but they didn t get it out there to get feedback, let other people see it, or even determine whether or not they needed to work on it more. : Absolutely. It s funny you should mention that. My first website was just a joke; but I had something. Once you get a little more money to make it better, you invest in it, change it, and make it better. It s a growing and evolving thing. Had I waited, I would still be waiting for it to be perfect. If you go on my website right now, it s a great website. Is it perfect? Probably not. Could I make it better? Absolutely, but I wouldn t be offering my coaching program and my certification program and helping people by the meditations I created if I had waited for it to be perfect. Tammy Lawman: Early in my career, I started out doing one thing and decided after a couple of years that I didn t like it. I was so disappointed because I had picked it as a major in college and said, This is what I want to do. When I got out, I thought, I have wasted all this time working towards achieving something that I now don t like. I used to beat myself up so badly about wasting time.

8 I thought, Now I have to start over. I don t look at things like that anymore. I look at it like what you re talking about. It s more of a process. I learned a lot while I was there. I learned a lot about what I didn t want to do. That helped me get to the point where I could figure out what I did want. : Exactly. I used to speak on suicide prevention because my sister had committed suicide. I thought that was a way to help give back and help people change their lives. While I was doing it, I helped people and definitely changed lives, but it didn t feel good. It felt good and I felt inspired and loving when I was teaching people about the Law of Attraction and giving them hope for their futures. When I went at it from that angle, I was helping people not be suicidal. In a way, I am helping, but to talk about the warning signs of suicide doesn t feel good to me. I had created an entire website on doing that, as well as brochures. I wrote two books about it. It was the same thing. I could beat myself up about all the time and money and everything I wasted, but it was a growing and learning experience for me. Now I know more about who I am and what I like. Tammy Lawman: Let s talk about the seven laws. What do you call them? : The 7 Essential Laws is what I call it. Everybody can go to if they want to learn more about the laws. I was seeing a lot of people learn about The Secret and the Law of Attraction. They thought, If I just do this and visualize, then I m going to get what I want. So many people were disappointed and frustrated because they weren t attracting what they wanted. I see for myself that it s not just about the Law of Attraction. There are other laws needed in order to create what you want. I created a website that has all the 7 Essential Laws and information on how to apply them. I think about it in this way: if you go into a kitchen and try to bake a cake with one ingredient, it s not going to be a very good cake. If you just think about the Law of Attraction and try to apply it, it s like going into the kitchen with only one ingredient. Because you think you know a lot about the Law of Attraction, you think you can go to graduate school when in fact, you re only in kindergarten. There are other laws to learn. There s more to learn. There are more techniques and processes to learn. Again, we re all growing and evolving beings. I wanted to create something that would allow people to understand how all the laws fit together like pieces of a puzzle. Tammy Lawman: Wonderful. Can you go into more detail about what those laws are, or did you want to change gears and talk about how important it is to work with intention and the laws?

9 : We can talk about those. I ll go over them quickly. Obviously, the first law is the Law of Attraction. Most people know that. Basically, it says that what you send out, you get back. It s like a boomerang. Whatever you broadcast out into the universe, it is literally joined by or attracted to energies that are of an equal vibration. Most of us think of it as out-of-the-blue, synchronicity, the law of meant-to-be, karma, or coincidence. Those are ways to describe the Law of Attraction. It s really what you give out, you get back. It s not a new concept. It didn t come along with The Secret. It s been here since the dawn of time. It s a universal law. It exists for every single person. The second law is the Law of Deliberate Creation. That law basically says that which you give your thought to, you begin to attract, but what you give your thought to with emotion, you attract quickly. The difference between the Law of Attraction and the Law of Deliberate Creation is that the Law of Attraction is like a boomerang. Whatever you give out with your energy, vibrations, thoughts, or feelings is going to come back to you. The Law of Deliberate Creation is offering a vibration knowingly so that you re not creating by default. Unless you are aware of these laws, people often offer vibrations unknowingly. In the Law of Deliberate Creation, you choose your thoughts, vibrations, and emotions that you feel by doing different processes and techniques. The third is called the Law of Allowing, which is the principle of least action or no resistance. Any time we re feeling fear, doubt, resentment, or any lower-level emotion, we are not in a place of allowing. It s like going with the flow. That s the best way to describe the Law of Allowing. It affects many areas of our lives. It affects the way we are with ourselves, how we are in relationships, and how we are in our relationship with the universe. There are a lot of ways to check in with yourself and figure out, Am I allowing my partner to be who they are, or am I resisting it? Am I allowing myself to be who I am, or am I expecting something different? Am I allowing the universe to bring me what I have intended, or am I pushing up against it? Number four is the Law of Sufficiency and Abundance. I think this one is my favorite law. We really have everything within us right now to make our life a living dream. We live in a universe of abundance, though most of us have been trained that it is a universe of scarcity and there s not enough. There aren t enough jobs, men, women, or money. If you feel that you re not enough or that there s never enough, because of the Law of Attraction, that s what you will attract. It s important to tap into the true essence of the universe, which is abundance. You can look to nature to see the true essence of the universe.

10 If you go out on a starry night, you can t possibly count all the stars in the sky. If you look at a fores,t you can t possibly count all the leaves that are on the trees. If you go out to the water s edge, you can t count how many ounces of water or how many waves are going up against the shore. It s abundant. There are so many. That s really what our universe is like. It s the truth of our universe. That s the Law of Sufficiency and Abundance. The fifth law is Pure Potentiality. This law is based on the fact that the true essence of who we are is pure consciousness. The source of all creation is pure consciousness or pure potentiality. It s seeking to express itself into some type of creation or form. When we realize our inner being, that spirit that animates our minds and our bodies is one of pure potentiality. We are in alignment with that power that manifests everything in the universe. We expand from a place where anything is possible. There s unlimited creativity. Nothing is not possible. There s a possibility for everything. Stressful situations can seem a lot less stressful, and you can get out of the resistance of the stress because you know that anything s possible, even beyond what you can see with your own two eyes. The sixth law is the Law of Detachment. It basically says that to acquire anything in this physical universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to it. This does not mean that you have to create by default or that you should not desire or intend for what you want to create. We all are deliberate creators. The Law of Detachment basically applies if you are clutching at something. When s it going to get here? When s my business going to finally do well? You re clutching at that. You re in a place of attachment, and the universe can t work through you. You re being too attached to it. It s causing too many negative emotions. You re not flowing again with the universe. The Law of Polarity is number seven. This law is basically that unity is plural at a minimum of two. What does that mean? It means there is a duality that exists between poles or opposites of everything. For example, polarity represents two extremes of one thing, which are the same thing. The temperature has a polarity with hot at one end and cold at the other end. Temperature is the thing. It s the same thing, but it has two different opposites or extremes. Along the same line is what you want and what you don t want. Every subject has two subjects. If you have money, are you in lack or are you in abundance with money? Are you feeling fearful, happy or excited about what s coming? There are always two different poles of what is available out there for us in decisions: good/bad, up/down, and love/fear. There s always the same subject, but they re different poles. Those are the 7 Essential Laws.

11 Tammy Lawman: Fantastic. Can you tell me again what the seventh one was? I was writing, and I missed that part. : The Law of Polarity. Tammy Lawman: The Law of Polarity. Great. It sounds to me like someone s emotions and their attitude, and maybe even a little bit of their personality, might play into how they can take this and apply this to their lives. Can you talk a little bit about that? : We re so cut off from our emotions, and we spend a lot of our time, as a society, trying to suppress who we are. A lot of us shop, overeat, do drugs, or drink alcohol to suppress our emotions. The thing that is our emotions are our guidance system. They let us know if we re moving in the direction of what we want or if we re moving in the direction of what we don t want. They re there to tell us our emotions are there. If we re feeling fear, there s a reason. What are our beliefs behind that fear? Whatever thoughts you re having, there s always a belief that starts that thought. It doesn t just happen that you have random thoughts. There are beliefs that are there. For every single person, if you want to change their life, all you have to do is go and find what the limiting belief is. Then you re able to shift that belief into a more life affirming belief. For example, say you feel fear. It s important to figure out, What are the thoughts here? What s going on? What s the fear? What s it about? What are the thoughts that are leading this fear? Maybe this isn t going to work out. You re scared because you re going to be alone for the rest of your life. You re scared because you can t find the clients that you want. Those are thoughts that come up. Go deeper with that and figure out what the beliefs are that are behind that thought. Do you believe that the universe isn t supporting you? Do you believe that there s not enough in your world? There s only a certain amount that you have to fight for your share. What are your beliefs? At that point, you can start working with other processes and techniques to change and shift your beliefs. Tammy Lawman: What prevents people from fulfilling or bringing in what they intend to bring in? What kind of mistakes do you see people make? : As I said earlier, the biggest mistake I see people making is they are not stepping into the emotions of it. They think, I can just think differently. I can just think positive. That s a big thing. People think, I ll just think positive, and then my life will change. You have to remember that thinking positive is important. Absolutely. It is the start of the process of where your thoughts do lead to emotions.

12 Let s say you re stuck in anger or you re fearful or resentful. For example, you want to attract a new partner, but you re feeling fearful of getting into a new relationship because you were betrayed before. You haven t worked with those emotions. You haven t released those emotions and healed those emotions. You re going to be attracting from that set point. It doesn t matter how many affirmations you do that your perfect man or woman is coming. If you still have this emotion of fear, disappointment, or betrayal, that s your set point. Most people don t realize that our emotions are the energy we give out to the universe. The universe is always, by Law of Attraction, supporting us in what we give back. You can think positive all day long but if your dominant vibration is in a lower level, that s what you re going to attract into your life. That s the biggest thing I see with most people. They don t get that emotions are bigger than thoughts. They need to step into the emotions and heal those emotions with whatever technique and process they need to do. From there they can start shifting their lives because as within, so without. Tammy Lawman: Do you feel people can make that transition on their own, or is it better to have someone to work with like a coach or a friend? How do you see people getting over that hump? : I definitely think people do it on their own. We all have the power to do that. When you re learning a new skill and you re learning something like this, I think that s where coaching comes into play. We re in our own heads. We re only in tunnel vision in our lives. A coach will help you get that total vision. You may be saying things that you don t even realize you re saying. A coach can help point this out. For those listeners who want to see what a free coaching session is with a Law of Attraction coach, they can actually my assistant at Assistant@ChristyWhitman.com. They can get a free session from one of my coaches. Say in the subject line that you d like a free session. We d be happy to set them up with a coach. It s amazing that so many people go to a workshop. They ll spend a lot of money to go to a workshop. They ll come home and put the information on their shelf, and they don t do anything about it. There s no one there to help them implement it on a weekly basis. That s why I think coaching has someone who keeps you accountable if you really do want to change your life and your mindset. It s a fantastic way to go.

13 Tammy Lawman: I totally agree. If someone is able to look at you and what you re saying and doing without any prior ideas of what you re supposed to act like or sound like, they ll probably recognize things in you that you re not seeing yourself. They can often point out all the problems you don t think of. I think as a society, we have a hard time building ourselves up or thinking good things about ourselves. We always want to look at the negative. : Absolutely. It is someone putting up a mirror to you. It s great because once you re aware of what you re doing, then you can change it. Obviously, awareness is the first step in making any type of change. That s where a coach can come in to give you that mirror or awareness. Once you have that awareness, now what do you do? How do you change it? That s where the coaches have the training to help you work with processes, techniques, and tools to help you actually change and shift your vibration. Tammy Lawman: When people are trying to implement these laws into their lives, what is the most important thing for them to remember? How do they get started? If they fall off the wagon one day, what s the most important thing that they can remember to get them back on track? : Just get back on track. Don t beat yourself up if you didn t meditate every single day, didn t do a process, or started thinking negatively again. It s important to get yourself back up on the horse, so to speak. It s really being consistent; that what I find with most people. It s having that awareness and responsibility in your own life. Nobody else is responsible for your life and what you create in your life but you. If you really want to change and shift, then it s up to you to do that. Tammy Lawman: What do you find when you re working with the people that you ve worked with? What are their biggest fears and doubts? I m sure some of audience can probably relate to it. How do you help them overcome that? : It s funny because the fears a lot of times are that someone s not going to be able to create what they want, or they re not going to be able to change their current situation. The doubts are coming in. They don t realize that doubts come because you don t trust. Either you don t trust your own ability to create or you don t trust the universe to support you in creating. The biggest doubts and fears I see are that people don t have that faith.

14 It s easy to feel abundant when you have a lot of money. When you re in debt, you re trying to learn about these laws, and that s where you really have to use that muscle. That s where you have to trust. Trust can be difficult for many people. That s really the muscle you have to develop: that trust muscle. I always suggest to people that the best way to do that is to keep a journal of the Law of Attraction, for example. They can look at evidence of all the things that are manifesting for them. It s easy to go back into our old ways and feel that the universe is not supporting us or we don t have enough. When you can start seeing and recording the evidence of it, it helps you. If you start feeling doubt, you can go back to that journal. In this situation, I was feeling doubt. I was feeling scared, but it worked out. I intended this, and this is what I created. You start having more confidence in yourself as a creator. Tammy Lawman: You guys might have missed this. I m sure some of you picked up on it, but Christy s given you a lot of great ideas for tools that you can use to help yourself. You mentioned meditation and keeping a journal. Can you talk about some of those tools and why they re important? : Absolutely. First and foremost, meditation is such a quick way to get you back into alignment. There are so many kinds of meditation out there. One meditation that I have people do, especially when they re beginners, is to concentrate on a sentence. For example, say, I am abundant. It s getting into that feeling place of what it would feel like to be abundant and connecting with that abundance of the universe and that source. That is the place you are in nonresistance. You re right then in that moment practicing the Law of Attraction. You re practicing the Law of Deliberate Creation because you are putting yourself in that situation. You re practicing the Law of Allowing because now you re in nonresistance. You re practicing the Law of Detachment because you re now in nonresistance. You re practicing the Law of Sufficiency and Abundance. You re practicing the Law of Pure Potentiality because you re tapping in with that pure consciousness. From the Law of Polarity prospective, you re now in a better place. Meditation is the thing that gets people into their power. It s very powerful if you can learn how to meditate. People say, I can t meditate. I tried it once. Meditation does not come easy for any of us, I would say. Our minds are used to ping-ponging through the past, present, and future. What am I going to eat for lunch? What am I going to do in 10 minutes? It s up to us to help quiet the minds so that we can get in touch with and put more attention on that power within us.

15 It s really easy to be trained. We ve all been trained since we were small children to put our attention outside of us. Stop for a moment, even if it s just five minutes and breathe and connect back to the power you have within you. The resistance goes away. That s when you can see things from a clearer perspective. Tammy Lawman: Thank you for sharing that on meditation. I have tried it many times, and I struggle with it tremendously. You re right that it s very difficult to quiet your mind to try to allow the universe to interact with you. : It s hard for you to turn that off and allow it to happen. Tammy Lawman: Can you give us some examples of some people you ve helped with the types of things they have attracted in their lives? I think people will be motivated by what they can do for themselves. : Absolutely. I ve had several people attract their ideal partners. As a matter of fact, I had one woman take my class, and within four weeks, she attracted her ideal partner and was engaged to him within six months. They actually asked me to be the officiant at their wedding. That was something, as a coach, that was so amazing to witness and see what they created together. It was phenomenal. That was one of the most amazing moments as a coach. I ve had so many people attract large sums of money by using different processes I teach. I ve had many attract jobs. One person took my Abundance Principal Coaching Program, and within four days of starting the program got $100,000 worth of consulting business for their business. I had another person taking the same class; within four weeks, she got her ideal job making $30,000 more than she was with more benefits and vacation time. It was ridiculous. She said, I m going for broke. I m going to ask for the most outrageous thing, and she got it, which was so great. Her husband was in the class. He got a promotion making 30% more than he was the prior year. So many people found their ideal partner, job, or house. I ve had several people lose a lot of weight, like 30 to 35 pounds, and keep it off using the Law of Attraction and the programs. I think more important than anything else is finding that deep sense of connection with your spiritual being. That s the biggest thing for me. Tammy Lawman: That s amazing. They re doing all this by applying the Law of Attraction and your other 7 Essential Laws to their life? : Exactly.

16 Tammy Lawman: I know that you have a program and something you want to talk to our audience about. You have something special you want to offer them. You can go ahead and start talking about that. : They can all go to and they can see at the bottom there s a program I offer called the Divine Manifesting System. The Divine Manifesting System will help them in many ways. First of all, it gives you more extended information on the universal laws that I very quickly went over. There s also a 50-day activity book so they can start implementing this information into their lives today. It helps them start solidifying it in their life, and it helps them apply it. The application is really where the energy shifts and everything manifests. They get a bonus track on one of my meditation CDs, Magnetizing Yourself. You can learn how to magnetize by using energy to you so you can magnetize money and clients. They also get a copy of my book Perfect Pictures that talks about the Law of Sufficiency and Abundance. It talks about the Law of Attraction and how it s so important to shift that mindset from never being enough to being satisfied with where you are but still reaching for what you want. It s a goal-setting session in there that helps you get clear on what you want and how to reach it. It s a very different goal session than most people do. That s all for $27. Tammy Lawman: Wow, that s a lot for $27. That s very generous. We also have a special link set up for you guys. It takes you to the same information. It s just a special offer that was set up. For the Intention Event people, go to /Christy and that will still take you to that special offer where you get all the things Christy talked about. You said it s $27? : Correct, yes. Tammy Lawman: Before we leave what are some other things that we can tell the audience to help them overcome their fear of success and failure and move on the path? Where do you think the biggest and best place is for people to start? : If you really want to start changing their life and getting a jumpstart, then take advantage of the fact that I offer coaching. You can Assistant@ChristyWhitman.com to get an hour of free coaching. I think that would be a great place to start. Now you re going to have someone holding you accountable and showing you what areas you need to change and improve.

17 The other thing is to start with something. If you can do a program like the one I m offering, the Divine Manifesting System, it s going to help you implement this on a daily basis. More important than any of those things, is checking in with your own emotions. If you re not having success shifting your emotions and knowing how to do that, that s when it s good to reach out and get some help. All of us have the potential to create the life of our dreams. The only thing standing in our way is ourselves. We really need to take responsibility and accountability for ourselves. Once we do that and start paying attention, taking responsibility for it, then we can have the power to change it. When we blame other people and say it s because of the government, that person, or my ex-husband, then the power is out of our realm of power. We can t do anything to change it. If we take responsibility for it and shift emotions and beliefs, then we re in a place of truly being empowered. Feeling that sense of empowerment is one of the highest vibrations in the universe. As within, so without. Your life has to shift and change. Every single one of you has the power to shift it. Tammy Lawman: Thank you very much for being here and sharing with our audience and for your generous offer. You guys should definitely take Christy up on her free coaching session. I ll put the address on the website as well. If you want to learn more about how you can apply the 7 Essential Laws to your life you can go to /Christy and you can check that out. Christy has a lot of great things for you. There s a workbook. : It s an actual activity book, my book called Perfect Pictures, and an audio. Tammy Lawman: You guys can check that out all for just $27. That s less than what you would pay for a dinner out with your spouse. You can start attracting all the things that you want into your life. Thank you so much for taking the time out to be with us. We appreciate your help and support. It s been great having you on the series. : Thanks so much for having me. Tammy Lawman: Check back with us. We ll be back with another session in a couple of days. You can go to the website to find the full schedule.