The material contained in this publication is provided for information purposes only!

Size: px

Start display at page:

Download "The material contained in this publication is provided for information purposes only!"

Harvey O’Connor’
5 years ago
Views:

1 Conversation 2 Sex

2 All Rights Reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced in any form or by any means, including scanning, photocopying, or otherwise without prior written permission of the copyright holder. The author, publisher, and distributor of this product assume no responsibility for the use or misuse of this product, or for any physical or mental injury, damage and/or financial loss sustained to persons or property as a result of using this report. The liability, negligence, use, misuse or abuse of the operation of any methods, strategies, instructions or ideas contained in the material herein is the sole responsibility of the reader. The material contained in this publication is provided for information purposes only!

3 Intro In this guide you will learn how to have an incredible, playful, and fun conversation with any woman you meet in you life. No matter where you meet her coffee shop, bar, nightclub, street, or anywhere else you can have her interested and engaged with your conversation quickly and effortlessly. The system perfected and presented in this book is not full of tricks and routines, it is full of ways to become an interesting conversationalist. This system is a way to provide value to every conversation you enter while attracting women. This system will also allow you to sexualize interactions with women much faster! Imagine You see a pretty girl siting at the bar all alone. She glances your way and smiles. You have been here before. You know what to do You smile back and make your way towards her. You can tell she is excited to talk with you. You hit her with your standard opener in these situations ( You know it s rude to look at someone that way and not say hi ) and she laughs. Everything is going as planned and the conversation goes well for the first three minutes or so as you feel each other out. Pleasantries are made and then a silence occurs. She looks at you and you begin to feel awkward. You have no idea what to say now

4 You can see in her eyes she is disappointed. She wanted to you to charm her. She wanted to get swept up in the conversation, but you let her down. You let yourself down. You are not a boring man. Or even worse You walk up to a pretty girl in the library who you have been making eyes with for the past few minutes. You shoot her a quick opener and she immediately warms up to you. She even asks you what your name is. Then after about thirty seconds you begin to freeze up. You mind goes blank. You have no idea what to say next or how to continue the conversation. She gives you a perplexed look and walks away. You sulk as you here her mutter, Creep! under her breathe. You are dejected and immediately leave the library. You don t approach a woman for the next moth because your ego is so hurt! The Truth The above scenarios have happened to every single one of us. We all go blank sometimes. Every single player can remember that time he completely froze up on an approach. Even the leaders of the seduction community are not immune to a conversational failure here and there It truly does happen to the best of us. However, it doesn t have to be this way. There is a system that can help you to have

5 playful, fun, and engaging conversations with women every single time she responds to your opener. What Not To Do Before we tell you how to have incredible conversations with every woman you interact with, you must know what not to do. If you stray into these territories, you are bound to bore any women you come into contact with into tears. The first thing you must avoid when talking with women is interrogation-style questions. Women absolutely hate this! When you interrogate a woman when having your first conversation with her, you ensure she will not see you as an interesting man. No, she will see you like every other dweeb she interacts with. Interrogation-style questions is when you continually ask her questions in rapid-fire succession like every other guy does. Instead of adding to the conversation by commenting on relatable experiences you have had, you just continue asking questions. Questions like What do you do for work? What do you do for fun? Do you have any pets? What s your favorite TV show? What kind of music do you like? BORING!

6 I hope you read those in a nasally, dork voice in your head because that s how I imagined someone saying them while writing this. Now imagine how a woman feels when you ask her these questions in a row. She will probably be a little creeped out. She will probably be thinking about a combination of these things: Does he not have anything to say about himself? Why does he want to know so much about me? This guy is a weirdo. What a creep! How do I get away from him quickly?! And this is just the tip of the iceberg of things women think when you act like this around them. Just remember gents: asking a question is fine, but start a conversation around that question. Never continually ask questions in an interrogation-style. Lastly.. Another huge no-go if you want to have playful and fun conversations with women is friend-zone pleasantries. A friend-zone pleasantry is when you completely remove your sexual nature when talking to her. You show her weak body language. You don t attempt to throw a joke her way. You ask too many questions. You are just too nice

7 Women want a playful, fun, and exciting man. They do not want a friend who asks how their week was. Remember to always be that playful and exciting man by avoiding acting like her friend! Get Her Attention By Demanding It When having a conversation with a woman you just met, you first impression creates a lasting one. And here s why The one secret most guru s and salesmen in the seduction industry don t want you to know is that there is a reason your conversations often dry up, become dull, or end abruptly. It s because you do not demand a girl s attention. If her first impression of you is of a weak and boring man, she will not give you cues to continue. While you may push through, this will affect your confidence. When you begin to subconsciously lose confidence, your brain has to do a number of things at once. When this happens you lose focus on the conversation and then you GO BLANK! It s not rocket-science men. However, there is a way to almost eliminate this problem from happening. You must demand her attention from the first word and this is done through your body language. When you open her you must do three things: maintain attractive body language, use a masculine tonality, and hold strong, sexual eye contact. She must know the minute she sees you that you are a man. She must instantly sense you are a man who goes after what he wants!

8 Do not walk up to her with your shoulders slouched and a weak voice, then expect she will be excited to talk with you. She may not blow you out quickly, but she will be thinking of a way to get out of the conversation. No, walk up to her and demand her full attention. Your head will be high. Your shoulders will be back. Your chin will be up. You will look her in the eye and hold it for a split second before you open your mouth. Then you will begin talking to her in a deep and loud masculine voice that commands attention. She will notice this and you will start conversations in an effortless manner once you begin to focus on perfecting your body language in order to make sure you have her full attention. If She Is Still Listening She is still interested! If she is still listening to your ramble and has not stated her wish to end the conversation or made a motion to leave, then she is still interested in you. If she is still interested in you, then she is still rooting for you to succeed. She is still hoping that you are a man she could see herself with. A man that excites her with his words and his body language. From Opener to Conversation Once you successfully open her, you will begin to engage in a conversation. This is where many men begin to struggle. Their

9 programmed nature is to ask question after question after q question and then occasionally try to tell the girl something about their job or hobbies. While logically this is a sound strategy, it never works. Women have men attempting to talk to them in this manner many times a day. If a woman is truly beautiful, men will continually try to ask her questions about the lamest shit imaginable. A pretty girl is simply tired of this type of interaction If you want to stand out while engaging her in conversation you must do one thing: make statements instead of ask questions. A pretty woman will be suspicious of any man who wants to know to much about her before she has proven herself worthy of his time. However, if you do not have a conversation with her you cannot let herself prove her worth to you. The easiest way to keep the conversation flowing is to continue a conversation with statements instead of questions. Now, you will still be asking some questions. You will not just ramble and ramble on continually. However, if possible you should make a statement instead of asking a question. You continue making statements until she takes the bait so to speak and begins to actively converse with you. This may seem vague so I want to give you a few examples: Bad: Where are you from? Good: You don t look like you re from around here.

10 Bad: Do you like the nightlife here? Good: I love going out in the city. I ve been going to XYZ bar a lot and I really dig the vibe. Plus, the drinks are pretty cheap too. Bad: What do you do? Good: I hope you re not one of those stuck up lawyers girls (shit-eating grin) The key is to understand when a question is needed and when you should continue with statements only. In a free-flowing conversation between someone you know, you rarely ask point-blank questions. No, you both throw statements back and forth at each other. This is how interesting conversation comes about. Now, when friends, significant others, etc. talk in mostly statements it is because they have a connection. By using statements more than questions, you give yourself a chance to build a deeper connection with the girl you are talking to. Interesting Questions to Continue the Conversation Now I have said you will have to ask questions on occasion This will always be true. However, we still want to avoid boring, run-of-the-mill questions that most men ask girls. Instead, we want to ask questions that can bring about an emotional response. We want to ask personal, yet playful questions. Naturally in most conversations the person you are talking with will give you an opportunity to ask a question that will

11 bring you closer to them or help to build a connection between the two of you. When this happens use your social skills and ask the proper question. If you are unsure when these moments arise, you can ask questions like these on occasion: What is the one thing in life you are the most passionate about? Are you an introvert or an extrovert? (and why ) If you could jump on a plane with just a backpack and go anywhere in the world tomorrow, where would you go and why? So, what would your best friend say is your worst personality trait and why? Are you a dog or cat person?...potential deal breaker here ;) Red or white wine?...potential deal breaker here ;) What is your biggest pet peeve? The one thing that if someone does it, you instantly hate him or her ;) These are not your typical what do you do? or where are you from? or how are you? type of questions. These questions help you get to know a little more about the woman you are speaking with by encouraging her to share things about herself.

12 Display High Value Through Storytelling As the conversation proceeds, you will begin to add statements about yourself into the conversation. She may even begin to ask you questions. This is a good sign! However, you can screw things up if you simply answer a woman s questions in a straightforward manner. You must almost avoid some of her questions while still giving her enough information to keep her interested. The best way to do so is through storytelling. If you cannot tell a good story or three, you need to go live your life before worrying about women. Women want a man who can tell an engaging story that enthralls her and excites her. Women love stories of travel, adventure, masculinity, and excitement. A woman does not want to hear a story about your day at the office. No, she wants to hear a tale about that time you were in South America and Then you tell her a tale of adventure or mischief or whatever. The key is to be engaging. Here are a few basics on how to tell a better story: Have something interesting to tell. Use pauses to create tension Use vocal tonality to indicate danger, excitement, and more Follow the body language rules earlier in this book to make sure you are demanding her attention Use emotional language to excite her Tell her how you felt, not exactly what happened

13 Once you learn to be an engaging storyteller, you will want to begin to use your stories like routines when speaking to a woman. You will have 2-3 stories on hand that you can sprinkle into almost any conversation with a woman. These stories will paint you as an attractive man and should attract her to you more so. *Think about your life and come up with 2-3 interesting stories you could tell. Write them out on paper. Then begin to practice telling these stories in front of the mirror. One Easy Routine Once you become an engaging storyteller, you will rarely find the need to have a routine in your back pocket. However, it can take some time to work your way to a place where you can engage women with statements and stories alone. If you are not a perfect conversationalist as of yet, here is an easy routine to follow: The Questions Game You will be talking with a woman and the conversation may have dried up. The girl is looking around the room and may be visibly bored You casually suggest you should play a game and she is all for it. The game is called the question game you tell her. You will ask her five questions and she has to answer every single on incorrectly. If she answers one question correctly, she loses. You ask her if she understands and she nods. So you begin

14 The first two questions can be about whatever you like, what s your name or how old are you or where are you from basically whatever The third question is, Where are we right now? The fourth question you ask with a confused look on your face, What question is this? And if she gets the fourth question right she will usually laugh Then you laugh and quickly say, Have you played this game before? She will answer quickly saying she hasn t and she will not have played before, therefore she answered honestly and loses. Make sure to bet a drink or something on this game. The Easiest Way to Sexualize Sexualizing a conversation can be a difficult task. If done incorrectly, you will come off as a complete creep. Being a creep is never good gentlemen! Men often want a guide to sexualize conversations easily and quickly, but there is not such thing. Each and every girl is different Not only is each and every girl different, but if you successfully sexualize things with a girl in public and she gets horny then

15 you have a problem. You want her peak horniness levels to be when you are alone, preferably at your place or hers. Still, here are a few of the best ways I begin to sexualize conversations with women: If she has a nice butt, So, do you have a nice butt? as you grab her hand and turn her around to look at it. Then once you ve glanced and possibly touched it, say, That ll do with a smirk on your face. Another easy question to sexualize things is to ask about sex in the past. The best question to ask is, When was the last time you had really good sex? Not just sex, but great sex This question frames you as a good lover because you confidently asked her about great sex. As well, this will allow you to dig deeper and find out what she likes in bed. The Perfect Conversation By now I hope you have realized one thing: A perfect conversation is not only about what you say, it s about how you say it. BY applying the tactics in this book, you will begin to see your conversations with women improving. Remember, practice make perfect. So get out there and start talking.

17 INNOCENT WORDS THE MAKE HER HORNY

17 INNOCENT WORDS THE MAKE HER HORNY Ever been frustrated by a woman you just couldn t turn on? Ever want to make sure a woman was horny... before... You tried to make a move? Well, my friend, you re in