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1 FIVE KEEP THIS GUIDE WITH YOU AT ALL TIMES SIGNS THAT A GUY LIKES YOU FREE GUIDE BY HARVEY HOOKE HARVEY GET HOOKE HIM HOOKED

2 WELCOME HI! MY NAME IS HARVEY HOOKE! and I have had the pleasure of becoming one of the world s most influential dating coaches for women. If there is one message that I really want to help every person understand, is that there is a weird logic to emotion, and that love, this crazy thing that we chase, is actually universal. That a THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME! I want to personally take the time that you have taken to download this book. You might be in a position where you re dating, or you re curious about dating, or maybe you re happily in a relationship and you re just looking for answers. What ever point you are at, I want you to know this.: those emotions, people, feelings, love and life, and everything in between are all universal. That the problems that men and women face individually are not that individual at all. I mean, there are SOME differences, like the number one issue that guy s face is having the confidence to say hello (yes, this is true), but for the most part, they are the same. This MEANS then, that men and women really aren t all that different, and that what we want isn t that different. How crazy is that? THAT MUST MEAN that maybe, just maybe, that we all fear, love, hope and dream for the same things also? SO IN THIS GUIDE... So in this guide, I present to you the 5 signs that a guy likes you, and as we said, these are universal, so chances are, you might also show those same signs also. I want you to be aware of this, because that way, you can see what you re really feeling, and see how a guy is really feeling. BECAUSE THE TRUTH IS... Because the truth is, that actions speak louder than words. A guy might tell you that he s not interested, but if he does some stuff that are tells that he does, then you re going to really find out that he actually liked you a little bit more than he let on. You re going to now see through the matrix here, take the pill and dive beyond and see the world that lies beyond what people tell you. - Harvey Hooke Xx

3 SIGN ONE GIFTS

4 SIGN ONE: GIFTS WHAT THE HELL IS A GIFT? A GIFT is an extra little bit of attention that he might give you. I wanted to call this sign extra attention but it would not have done it justice. The truth is, when we like somebody we accidentally start doing more things for them. WHY? You ll find out below SO A GIFT IS EXTRA ATTENTION Well, think of it this way. I don t just want you to understand the signs, but I want you to understand WHY a sign exists. So, if you think of it deeply, a guy will give you extra attention because he s thinking about you. Little gifts like extra time, lingering eye contact, or an extra question here or there are all gifts that he might give you. I once had lunch with a female friend who was quite a bombshell herself, and she spoke nicely to the guy behind the counter, and oh boy was he hooked. She went off to another store to get ice-cream while I waited for my burrito... and... he would not stop asking questions about her while she was away. Sure, you might not see that (because a guy might hide his feelings, as people tend to do), but if you start to develop a keen eye for human behaviour, you would have noticed the gifts that he can t hide. Like how before she spoke to him he wouldn t really look at her, and now any excuse he had was used to actually look at her. It was like she had cast a magical spell on him and both of them had no idea. SO A LIST OF GIFTS WOULD BE Gifts are like tells. A tell is a sign that gives away what somebody is actually feeling, so here is a list of tells: - He spends more time with you than other people. - He asks you extra questions. - He wants to know more personal information. - He is excited about who you are, and not what you do or look like. - He gives you extra eye contact. - He starts to become physically closer to you. - He touches you. - He gives you longer eye contact. - He looks like there s something he wants to say to you when you don t say anything. - He starts a conversation/topic when a topic has ended. - He always finds a way to be around you. All these gifts are things that a guy can give you that is beyond his money or something else. It s his time.

5 SIGN TWO FRUSTRATION

6 SIGN TWO: FRUSTRATION SO WHY IS HE FRUSTRATED? HE IS FRUSTRATED because he doesn t have you. If a guy really likes you, and he can t get you... he s going to be frustrated. I can tell you, that this is a good thing. Sure, you don t want a guy to be going crazy about you, but if he wanted to ask you out and he doesn t... he s going to be frustrated. SO WHY DO WE GET FRUSTRATED? So people tend to get frustrated when they want something to happen and it didn t. All of these 5 signs can be boiled down to one thing, HE WANTS YOU!!! If he wants you, and he doesn t HAVE you, then he is going to be frustrated. The reason why this is a good thing is because of the knight, the princess and the dragon. Imagine a knight who has to go and save the princess. If he wants her, he ll probably go on a quest, climb the tower and face the dragon. The dragon here is frustration. When he beats the dragon and gets the princess (you) chances are, he s probably not going to be thinking about another princess. WHY WOULD HE? He went on this whole quest to get you, and if he has to get another princess, he might have to fight another dragon. BE CAREFUL WITH THIS THOUGH I don t want you to go and try and get guys frustrated now because if you do that, you re just being mean, but I do want you to start to be aware of it. If a guy starts wants to ask you out, and you re not free, and you see that he gets a little bit frustrated... it s because he actually really likes you and he wants to spend more time with you. He ll probably put in extra effort next time to try and see you more. This becomes a really beautiful dance now because now he s almost chasing you, and when that happens, you re going to reward him with your time, like a true mighty princess should. Remember you re in control here, and if he wants you, he has to live up to your standards, just like you have to live up to his. There s an incredible dance at play when two people come together, and learning to read the signs is important so you can dance a little bit better, or faster, or slower, or sexier, or even a little bit longer (for the rest of your life if you want). It is this dance that I tell people that they should treat every date like it is the first one. That way you ll fall in love with that person again and again and again.

7 SIGN THREE STRESS

8 SIGN THREE: STRESS THIS IS A BIG ONE!!!! So, why is it a sign that a guy likes you if he is stressed out? Shouldn t he be this big strong man and beat his chest like a drum and carry you off into the trees like the cave man that he is? That might happen if he is extremely emotionally mature, but honestly, even the most emotionally mature people often can second-guess themselves when it comes to love. I do it sometimes as well, it is just human nature. SO WHY STRESS? Well, look at it this way. When we like somebody, when we are attracted to somebody, our body releases various stress hormones. Your body actually starts to release things like dopamine, oxytocin, adrenaline and vasopressin, but being attracted to somebody can also release the stress hormone CORTISOL, that contracts the blood vessels in the stomach, almost making people feel sick. Ever heard the term lovesick before? This is where it comes from. It is the cortisol that can actually make people feel stressed out, and then ultimately make us worry when they aren t around because we are no longer getting all those sweet, sweet other hormones that we love (like oxytocin. It is that reason that we begin to feel stressed out, and sometimes we start to second guess ourselves because of that stress. THERE IS NO REASON TO BE WORRIED ABOUT THIS THOUGH! Some people won t like me when I say this, but you are only human. This is what happens, and it can effect all of us. The important thing to note here is that if you become AWARE of it, you ll start to notice it in yourself and other people. When you become aware of it, you ll also realise that you re letting those hormones effect your behaviour (and maybe you want that to happen) and if you want it to stop you can take some time to think and process those emotions. The key here is, seeing that sign in a guy, so when you see maybe he s starting to stress out about what your opinion is over dinner, don t think that he s not that mentally strong, start to realise that he s just stressed out by you BECAUSE HE LIKES YOU! It s as simple as that.

9 SIGN FOUR APPRECIATION

10 SIGN FOUR: APPRECIATION WHY APPRECIATION Appreciation is how we should all work our relationships... and when I use the word relationship I don t just mean romantic. I mean the relationship you have with your mother and your father, your friends, your housemate and your dog... this should all be based on appreciation. Appreciation is key because we live in the moment and we are seeing things for how they are. This is so important to note that it gets its own special sign in this guide. APPRECIATION NOT EXPECTATION So, what is appreciation? Appreciation is simply put, admiring the moment, admiring who you are and what you have. Most relationships die because we stop appreciating our partners and we start expecting things from them. Those little cute things that we loved about them at the start become questions like well, what have you done for me lately. This is because we often condition people into having a relationship with us, and not being aware that this happens often makes people take each other for granted. The moment you start expecting stuff from your partner, take some time to look at it, and ask yourself, will this hurt us or not? SO WHAT DO I LOOK FOR? f you can see that a guy is genuinely appreciative of your time and your affections and maybe things a little bit more intimate, THAT is when you not only realise that he likes you, but that he is a keeper. He has a good head on his shoulders and so do you for being able to see that. The truth is, in a world of fast food, fast cars and fast internet streaming Netflix, we often have some crazy expectations on our relationships... but when you present yourself as the most authentic person you can, and he sees that and really appreciates that THEN you ve got a relationship that is worth going down. On the other hand, if he just appreciates your body, and if once you guys indulge in some under the cover fun he disappears, then this tells you more about him than you realised. Appreciation is the foundation of an incredibly strong bond. Look for it, love it, hold it, and give it. GO FIRST.

11 SIGN FIVE SHOWING-OFF!

12 SIGN FIVE: SHOWING-OFF! WHAT A SHOW-OFF! Yes, what a show off! Just know, this never a bad thing. People show off because they want people to like them, so if he is showing off with you, MAYBE IT IS BECAUSE HE WANTS YOU TO LIKE HIM? He s going to start showing off his best assets, and honestly, that s what you should look at! Don t judge his show off as harsh, see it as him demonstrating value. ATTENTION ATTENTION!!! I ve commonly described human interaction as people beeping. Two people, when they are in sync, often beep. They beep with the same rhythm and the same tone. If however, a guy wants your attention, he might start beeping louder and faster, what ever he might need to stand out! His beeps might become about his intelligence, his nice job, or his travels. We all tend to beep like this, because this kind of beeping is called FLIRTING. He, in a primal way, is trying to show off is value to get you to like him. Some people hate a show off, but if you re judging it, then STOP... because he s just trying to get you to like him. He s just beeping really loudly so it get s your attention! Some guys try and do this with their money, if you like that, then go ahead, if you don t... that is when you beep in an unapproving way and communicate to him that you re interested in something else. He ll love that you did it. KINDS OF SHOWING OFF Let s break a list down now of all the kinds of showing off! These are only a few examples... - He wants to show off how worldly he is, via his travels or his experiences - He wants to show off his fancy abilities, maybe with sports, or with something else, by bringing you to a place that allows him to show that off! - He wants to show off how intelligent he is, by having an in-depth conversation. - He wants to show off how caring he is, by asking how you are feeling. - He wants to show off how strong he is, by lifting things for you. - He wants to cook for you, showing that he can be a provider. - He might invite you to some exclusive event, now showing how much status he has. - He might laugh at your jokes, showing how personable he can be. I want you to remember that these are all subconscious, and people tend to do these without even thinking. I bet you ve done a few as well...

13 WHERE TO FROM HERE?

14 THIS IS THE START OF OUR RELATIONSHIP YES THAT S RIGHT, THE START This is a two-way relationship, and I want this to be the start of our relationship. At the time of writing this, I make myself as available as I can. I will always answer messages while I still can, so it is important for you to get on this! I love it when people tell me their stories, what they learned, what they didn t how they grew. In the same day that I wrote this, a client of mine was crying on the phone because of how happy she was that she had finally understood how powerful she actually is... and I was crying on the other end with her. We work together on this, and I firmly believe that together, we are better. SO, STAY IN TOUCH! Stay in touch by following me on Instagram and following me on youtube, but more importantly, I want you to flirt with the idea of coaching. Coaching is one of the most important and influential ways to drastically change and transform your life. I even have my own coaches, and I ve been so thankful because of it. Without my team of coaches, I would not be where with you today, and I can honestly say that I ve been helping so many people and there are a few that I am really glad that are on this earth. So, stay in touch, flirt with that idea, and click the links below! You won t regret it! CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT MY RESULTS COACHING PROGRAM CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION ABOUT MY ONLINE PROGRAMS CLICK HERE FOR MORE FREE GUIDES!

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