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Discovering Your Values Discovering Your Authentic, Real Self That Will Drive Women Wild! Written By: Marni The Wing Girl Method http://www.winggirlmethod.

1 Discovering Your Values Discovering Your Authentic, Real Self That Will Drive Women Wild! Written By: Marni The Wing Girl Method DISCLAIMER: No responsibility can be accepted by Marni, The Wing Girl Method or her publishers for the accuracy of information contained in this book, or any action taken or not taken based on such information. You are responsible for your own behavior, and none of this book is to be considered legal or personal advice. You may NOT copy, steal, or distribute all or any part of this book without permission.

Hey You!! Before I dive into telling you, How To Get To Know You, I want to properly introduce myself. My name is Marni and from here on out, I am going to be your personal Wing Girl.

2 Hey You!! Before I dive into telling you, How To Get To Know You, I want to properly introduce myself. My name is Marni and from here on out, I am going to be your personal Wing Girl. I m not just any Wing Girl. In fact, I was voted the #1 Wing Girl in the world and World s Best Female Coach at the PUA Summit. My job is to tell you everything about women so that you can meet, attract, date, seduce and be with the women you want. I have successfully done this for almost a decade. I have helped thousands of men all over the world get everything they want with women and now it s your turn. I AM NOT A PICK UP ARTIST I want to be very clear with you. I am not a Pick Up Artist. I do not teach routines, lines or any type of manipulation. In fact, I believe that many of the top Pick-Up Artists materials actually harm more men than they help. Why? Because a lot of their techniques stress the goal of feeling superior to women, in order to gain success with women. This creates an unequal dynamic where insecurity becomes the driving force behind attraction. This is certainly not healthy for anyone involved. My belief is that if you have the power to feel Superior to anyone, eventually you will resort back to feeling inferior. Both labels are just two different sides of the same coin. The materials I provide will show you how to empower yourself by getting a clear understanding of how women work, what they want and why they do the things they do. In addition, my written, audio, and video coaching products will help you gain a strong masculine character, whose presence women will be attracted to regardless of your individual life circumstances.

3 How Is A WOMAN Going To Help Me Gain A Strong Masculine Character? I am pretty sure you are asking yourself How is SHE going to help me gain a strong masculine character. Trust me I have heard it before. This is why I want to explain it in detail, so we can eliminate this belief and move forward. BELIEF: Women Give Bad Advice To Men About What Women Want TRUTH: Most women give bad advice to men about what women want. To be fair, many women do not actually comprehend what women want or why they do the things they do. Most women will be able to tell you exactly what they WISH they wanted, but very few are able to say what they genuinely want. In fact, about five months ago I put out an ad asking for women to give me their opinions on what women really want from men. I got over 600 responses from women around the world. Many where Beautiful, intelligent women who I later discovered has absolutely no idea what it was they wanted, what they were attracted to or what they responded to with men. I was shocked! But one thing I did learn is that women were very interested in being heard (save that note for later). For some women, it s difficult to admit the behaviors they respond too. This is either because they are embarrassed or because they really don t have a clue, even if they desperately want to figure it out. Most women also hold themselves on a social pedestal - and are very fearful of confronting themselves and falling off. Now, there are some women out there who are different. Take me for example. I am a woman who deeply understands what goes on inside my mind, and I am able to articulate WHAT, HOW and WHY I do the things I do and think. I am also a woman who is not embarrassed or fearful about how you will perceive me, when revealing the truths behind my actions. However, in most other ways I am just like all the rest of the women in the world, and exactly like the women you want to be with. I have been attracted to men, loved men, hated men, been hurt by men, got revenge on men, felt insecure around men, had sex with men, rejected men, been wishy-washy with men, led men on, flirted with men for fun and pleasure, teased men, broken up with men for no reason, avoided men, flaked on men, given men my number with no intention of answering their calls, had one night stands with men, been in long term relationships with men and

4 placed men in the friend zone when they deserved a romantic chance. I have experienced every scenario you have experienced but on the other end. It's not so much that I m going to help you be a step ahead of her in the game - it's so that you're actually really in the game and playing it with her. With my help you are going to be the guy who has a woman that is truly into him, not because of what you do or what you have, but because you are being yourself and projecting a confident masculine body language/personality that women are intensely attracted to. If you have any questions, concerns or comments feel free to me directly at marni@winggirlmethod.com

5 Now onto the good stuff!! How you REALLY get to know yourself so that you can be authentic, real, and genuine. One key thing to mention is that being authentic and real happens once you open up and start seeing others around you as different instead of wrong. The more that you get to know yourself, the more understanding and accepting you can be of the differences in others. There are some questions below that are going to help you discover how you think, feel, and what your core values are. They aren t tough, or meant to trick you. They are actually very easy questions about a great topic that you are very familiar with, YOU. The questions were also developed to help you discover where you are and where you want to go in your life with women. Please take your time and think about your answers. Again, they are for you, not for anyone else. So really put some thought into them. Instructions: 1. Answer questions in the order they are listed. If you feel you need more time to think about a question, pause and take time to contemplate what you want to write. 2. Be real with yourself. No one is judging you and no one will ever see these answers. 3. You can input your answer directly on this document, or you can print it out and answer the questions manually by hand. 4. Most importantly - have fun! Note that next steps are provided at the bottom of the questions.

6 QUESTIONS 1. Look forward 20 years you are attending a function where someone is giving a speech about YOU! What would you want them to say? 2. If time and resources were not a concern, describe things you long to do. 3. How would you define a true leader? What qualities does this leader embody? 4. If you knew that you could not fail at what you really wanted to do, what would that be? 5. Think about two or three people you know who really inspire you. Who are they and what about them is inspiring?

7 6. What s missing in your personal and professional life? What would make your personal and work life more fulfilling? 7. What are the biggest changes in your personal life and with women you want to make over: a.) The next 3 Years? b.) The next 3 Months? 8. What activities have meaning and purpose for you. 9. What are your biggest personal roadblocks to your personal and professional success?

8 10. What is your commitment to eliminating these constraints? 11. Of the things you start, what is the percentage of things you finish? 12. What are you most satisfied with in your work and personal life right now? What are you least satisfied with in your work and personal life right now? 13. What are your 3 greatest accomplishments or achievements up to today? 14. What is the hardest thing in your life that you ve had to: a.) Overcome? b.) Accept?

9 15. What two steps could you immediately take that would make the biggest difference in your current situation (in any area of your life)? 16. What do you believe in? (just yourself, a higher power, etc.) Explain what, why, and how you came to this perspective. 17. What kinds of things in your current and previous workplace environments drive you crazy? What aspects of your dating life? What else in life makes you very upset? Really allow yourself to go to town and bitch here. 18. What would you change in your personal and/or dating life, if you could wave a magic wand? YOU ARE DONE!

10 WHAT TO DO NEXT? So now that you have filled out all these questions, what are you supposed to do with the answers? The first thing you should do is read them. Then add to them and tweak them if necessary. Digest what you have written and get to know your strengths, weaknesses, likes, dislikes, wants and needs. I would suggest reading your answers every evening for a week. NOTE: I guarantee each time you read them you will discover something new to add, and you will begin to look at it differently. In addition, you will feel different as well. You will start to have greater confidence, more inner strength and a deeper understanding of yourself. After that first week, I want you to go through your responses and look for your personal core values. You will begin to notice that they are sprinkled throughout the document. After you learn how to find them the first time, it will eventually become easy to instantly pick them out in later exercises. For example: Answer to question #17: It drives me crazy when people waste their time having small talk with others in the office. It would be better if people did their work and then socialized after. I would like that. Values: If you look at this answer you will see one of the core values is having a work hard, play hard mentality. Thus, a clear line between work and play is important. Go back to each question, look at your responses and see the deeper core value within each response. You will find very interesting insights about what you value and don t value. Use this deeper knowledge of yourself to also recognize that others around you have different values than you. It will help you to be less angry with others by having a deeper understanding and acceptance of their values/actions.

11 What Are Personal Values? Personal values provide an internal reference for what is good, beneficial, important, useful, beautiful, desirable, and constructive, etc. Values generate behavior and help solve common human problems for survival. Comparative rankings of value provide answers to questions of why people do what they do and in what order they choose to do them. The Importance of Clearly Defining Your Core Values Defining our values gives us purpose. When you don t know or you haven t clearly defined your values, you end up drifting along in life. Instead of basing your decisions on your own internal compass, you make choices based on circumstances and social pressures. One result is that you end up trying to fulfill other people s expectations instead of your own. Before you know it, life has passed you by and you haven t even started to live. Trying to be someone else and living without core values is exhausting and leaves you feeling empty and unfulfilled. Conversely, living a life in line with your core values brings purpose, direction, happiness, and wholeness. Defining our values prevents us from making bad choices. Perhaps you have a vague idea about what you value. But if you haven t clearly defined your values, you can end up making choices that conflict with them. And when your actions conflict with your values, the result is unhappiness and frustration. Defining our values gives us confidence. I ve noticed that when I take the time to really think and meditate upon what I value and then write those things down, I m more likely to have the courage and confidence to make choices based on those values. There s something about actually writing down your values that makes you more committed to living them. Defining our values makes life simpler. When you re sure of your core values, decision-making becomes easier. Furthermore, when faced with a choice, you simply ask yourself: Does this action align with my values? If it does, then do it. If it doesn t, then you probably should refrain from the action. Instead of fretting over what s the best thing do to, and possibly having great confusion when determining how to proceed in times of crisis, you simply let your internal compass guide you.

12 Overall having an understanding of your core personal values will help you attract women, date women, seduce women, get a great woman and ultimately have a strong relationship. Why? Because it helps you really understand yourself so that you can: 1. Be more open to others (especially women) 2. Act less guarded and defensive 3. Remain emotionally stable when you feel your ego getting bruised 4. Be more empathetic to others who have different values then you 5. Stay calm, and be less angry/frustrated with others 6. Be your authentic real self 7. Have a strong character that women are instantly attracted too! Women want a man with a strong sense of his core personal values, as well as a man who can truly put his most authentic self forward. There are 1000 s of little things that most men don t know about women. But I guarantee that if you knew them, it would put you in the top 1% of men. The men in this elite group have their choice of virtually any women they want. As your own personal Wing Girl, I can tell every little thing you need to know about women - including things that women would never want you to know.

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