packaging yourself to Intrigue a hot woman

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1 packaging yourself to Intrigue a hot woman by Ron Louis & David Copeland

2 For tons of great info on getting what you want with women, both through connecting and disconnecting, visit us at Copyright 2006, Mastery Technologies, Inc. All rights reserved Mastery Technologies, Inc. PO Box Madison, WI Disclaimer: We shouldn t have to say this, but it s true: Remember, you and only you are responsible for your actions and your behaviors, with women or in any other setting. To be crystal clear: the authors and publisher of this information have no responsibility for you use choose to use this material. It s always your responsibility to make sure that the actions you take with women are legal and consensual. By reading and using this information, you release the authors and publisher from any liability in any way. As always, your life is up to you. Having said that, welcome to becoming a Hard to Get Man! Have fun! Ron Louis & David Copeland

3 It s not enough to be a great guy you have to be able to express that. You have to package yourself to sell. Imagine if you made a great product, and you wanted to sell it. It s not enough that YOU know that it s a great product. It s not enough that your friends know, or that your Mom knows. If you didn t spend the time learning how to market your product, you d end up sitting around at home, wondering why nobody was buying your amazing product. After all, anybody who s spent the time to get to know it really likes it a lot! Well, YOU and the idea of being sexual with you are your product. And hot women are your market. You know that we are all bombarded by advertisements every day and most of it is terrible, self-serving, boring, irrelevant, and ineffective. Well, hot women are bombarded by advertisements from men all day, each one trying to sell the idea of being sexual with him. And most of it is terrible, self-serving, irrelevant, and ineffective on the hot women. This is good news for you, because it means that, while there is a LOT of competition from other men, almost none of them have done the work to package themselves to sell with women.

4 If you haven t done the work to figure out how to market your product that is, yourself and if you haven t spent the time figuring out how to package yourself to sell, then you are going to be ineffective with women. You have to do this work. Hot women are not going to sit around and figure out what s unique about you, or figure out why she should be with you. Here are some questions that will help you get clear on things you can talk about that sell you as a guy worth investing in. Write your answers quickly, as a brainstorm or stream-of-consciousness. You can refine them later. Some of these questions may seem redundant, but different angles will get you to different answers. Once you have these answers, pick the most interesting, unusual, and compelling of them, and practice saying them out loud until you can do it without any hesitation. For instance, if you are a computer systems analyst, your most interesting answer to the question What do you do might have been, I help people have exciting, interesting lives by making sure that their computer systems work 100% of the time. In fact, our team just created a new way of connecting to other people on the internet, and it s just so fun to see people enjoying it. It s true, and it s a lot more interesting to a woman than Oh, I work in computers.

5 If you are a biologist, rather than just saying I m a biologist and leaving it at that, you might say, You know about DNA, right? Well, I m one of those people fooling around with it to keep people from getting sick. In fact, I m really excited about the breakthrough we recently had in helping people with Alzheimer s disease. It feels really good to make that difference in people s lives. The most interesting answers you come up with are the things you must say to women. You have to show them the advantages of being with you, and being interesting and excited about your life is one of the best ways to do that. Your answers to these questions are the packaging you must have for yourself, if you are going to be engaging with women. i What are ten ways to answer the question, what do you do?

6 i What s most important to you in your life? i What are ten important things to you? i What do you like? What experience do you get from what you like?

7 i What are you curious about?

8 i What would you like the world to be like? i How could you express yourself more? though your look and clothing? through your home, car?

9 through your activites? through how you talk about yourself? i What are activities you d love to do, or suspect you might love to do? short term/easy (ie, take a spinning class) long-term/hard (ie, sail around the world)

10 i What do you want to create in the world? i What are you enthusiastic about? i What are you building and creating in your life that a woman might want to be a part of? 10

11 i List 10 benefits of being with you. What are entertaining stories you could tell to demonstrate those benefits?

12 Lifestyle Questions These questions are designed to help you look at how you live your life, and how you want to live your life. i What social groups would you like to be a part of? i What parts of yourself would you have to be expert in expressing for that to happen? i How would you need to express your look and personal style? 12

13 i If you were to attract the kind of lovers you want, what would your home need to look like? what kind of places would you go to? i What kind of habits would you have, (ie, going to Nascar races, or reading the New York Times in a coffee shop each Sunday?) i Actions you can take today to start doing these things: 13