A practical guide to integrating the Reiki principles into your daily life

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Gokai The Reiki Principles A practical guide to integrating the Reiki principles into your daily life The Gokai are an integral part of Reiki, they are a guide to help people find their way to better physical health and peace of mind. Usui Sensei, the founder of Reiki, discovered in his practice that people would often return to him after they had been healed either with a reoccurrence of the original problem, or a similar issue. He recognised the important connection between our way of thinking, or state of mind, and our physical health. He came up with the Gokai in order to help people think healthily, creating a healthier mind and body for themselves. Gokai Kyo dake wa - Just for today Ikaruna - Do not be angry Shin pai suna - Do not worry Kan sha shite - Be grateful Gyo-o-hagame - Do your duties Hito ni shinsetsu ni - Be kind to others Chiyoko Yamaguchi, my first teacher, said that once you have made the first four principles part of your life, the fifth be kind to others - automatically follows. The fifth was seen as most important by Usui sensei, who said that one way of being kind to others was to give Reiki to them. Chiyoko sensei stressed the importance of the Gokai to her students, advising us to say them aloud twice a day, bringing them to our conscious minds and feeling them in our hearts.

I find this to be meditative and soothing and I recommend it to others too. If you can, it is a good idea to say it in Japanese, as this was the original language and these particular words were chosen by Usui sensei because of the energy behind them and their rhythm when chanted you can find the pronunciation on my site under the Home page, Gokai section. Kyo dake wa Just for today The first sentence of the Gokai, which precedes the five main principles, is there to remind us all that living in the present is fundamental in life. Thinking about the past, about things we wish we hadn t done or said, or things we wanted to do differently is not helpful; neither is worrying about the future. Kyo dake wa is something to remember as often as you can and you can remind yourself of this by taking the time to practice being in the moment. Give yourself 5 minutes to focus on something outside, a flower for example, look at the minute details and the colours, feel the texture. Then take 5 minutes to listen to the sounds around you. Listen to those closest to you, then see if you can hear anything further away can you hear the sounds underneath those sounds? Exercises like this really help me to focus on what is around me right now, and take me out of whatever is going on in my head. Ikaruna Do not be angry Anger is not a terrible thing; it can be helpful at times, and certainly helps us to feel truly alive and human. Feeling anger when it happens is healthy and finding safe feel good ways to

express it is healthy too, but holding on to it, burying it, feeling guilty about it or harbouring it so it burns inside you unexpressed, is extremely dangerous to your physical and emotional health. I believe do not be angry can be looked at like this: It is about feeling your anger and finding a way to express it so that you can move it out of your body and your experience quickly, safely and without guilt. Find the way that this works best for you. I have found a way that feels good to me, and now when I feel anger inside me, I try to let it come up, I feel it in my body, I get angry, I shout, or cry or run or play loud music and dance crazily. I do whatever feels good to express it in the moment. After that, I imagine myself standing in the anger; I imagine the colour of it and feel it in my body. Then I step out of it and watch it blow away with the wind. It is not foolproof, but often works well for me. What do you think would work for you? So, do not be angry means do not stay angry to me. If you find yourself unable to let the anger go, try looking at what is underneath the anger, often there is a reason we can t let it go a fear, guilt or sadness that it is covering up, protecting us from feeling the real problem. If you live your life with the Gokai in mind, and use Reiki to help yourself, then I believe that as you evolve and become more at peace with yourself and the world around you, you will find yourself naturally becoming less and less angry.

Shin pai suna Do not worry Worry is a habit present in most of our lives and is particularly detrimental to health. Worry weighs us down and prevents us from living freely and feeling good. It produces toxins in our bodies that are the precursor to sickness and disease, so this principle is an important one. Worry can also stop us from taking action we want to take and can sabotage what we are trying to create. What you focus on in life, is what you draw towards you. I am not saying that every little thing you worry about will manifest in your life, but if you are constantly worrying and spend a great deal of time imagining what you don t want to happen, then you may well draw it into your experience. For example, if you are constantly worrying that the new project you have started at work is going to fail, then it is more likely to. If you spend a lot of time thinking about how you might not be able to pay your bills next month, then you are drawing exactly that experience to you. Worry is something that causes problems on both the physical and emotional level, which ultimately affects your life experience. What can you do to stop worrying? Having the clear intention to stop is a start if you get what I mean! And saying the Gokai daily helps me to keep my intention alive. Remember that worry changes nothing. The outcome is the same, worry or not, so the only difference is how much you enjoy your life in the meantime.

Find ways or thoughts that help you get to a place of feeling good about what is worrying you. For example, if I m worried about something, I sometimes imagine how I am going to feel in a month s time. I imagine that things went the way I wanted them to, and any little mistakes I have made have been forgotten. I imagine how I will feel, more than what I will think, and that helps me to worry much less, which in turn, leaves the way clear for my life experience to flow smoothly. Think of something you are worried about in your life right now. Is worrying going to change the outcome? What thoughts would help you to feel better about the situation? Imagine your life from the perspective of next month or next year imagine it just as you want it to be, and feel how good that feels. Kan sha shite Be grateful This is one of the keys for changing your life, in my opinion. The more you are able to feel gratitude - I mean really feel it in your body, not just think it - the more you will find there are things in your life to be grateful for. This is because what you focus on, you bring into your life experience. I remember when I first came across the idea of gratitude being a powerful tool in life. I couldn t really get to grips with it. I think this is because I hadn t ever paid attention to what it felt like in my body. I had been grateful of course, but it had been more of an intellectual concept, so I didn t fully understand how great it made me feel.

I read somewhere once that keeping a gratitude diary and writing in it every evening- 5 things you are grateful for that day- is helpful. So I tried it. At first I found it difficult to find 5 things, but after a short time, it became easier and easier and I started to write a list much longer than 5. Then I began to notice things throughout the day too that I would put in my diary. I started to feel gratitude more and more in my body and pretty soon, I realised that I was feeling better than I had before. Better about my life and what was in it and happier in myself. I have a feeling that this is just a glimpse of the power of gratitude. The diary idea may be something that works for you, or it may be that something else appeals to you. I urge you to find a way to bring more gratitude into your life. What does gratitude feel like in your body? Gyo-o hagame Do your duties This one first sounded semi-religious to me because of the translation as duty. Of course it is not religious, and it is important to remember that in Japan in the 1920s when Usui sensei wrote the Gokai, the idea of duty was a very usual one. There is wisdom in simplicity, and I believe do your duties is simple. It can be looked at in two ways: Firstly, taken with just for today and living in the now, it is about how much easier life is when you simply do what is right in front of you instead of complaining about it, doing it

begrudgingly, or finding 101 reasons why you really should leave it until later. Whether it is washing the dishes, doing a report or helping out a friend, simply doing it makes you feel good. And when you feel good, you want to help others to feel good too. Secondly, do your duties is about working on yourself. Self development is an important part of life and it is easy to become so engrossed in your job and things you think you have to do, that you forget to save some time for yourself. Time to just sit with yourself and look inward, time to think about who you are and how you are showing up with those around you do you want to be the person you are being right now? How would you like to be seen by others? What is your contribution to the world? Is there something you want to change about yourself? Something you want to do or say more of? These things can be seen as your duty too because as you begin to feel better and better about yourself yes, here it is again you become someone who naturally wants to help others do the same. Hito ni shinsetsu ni Be kind to others The feeling of being kind to another is a wonderful feeling. The energy created when we are kind continues on after the interaction and often leads others to pass on the act of kindness. Kindness is something inherent in us all. It is our natural state of being, yet we are not always kind to each other. Why is that?

We have so much going on in our lives and in our heads and our egos that we sometimes get lost in the fog and find it difficult to see clearly who we really are. Looking inside and considering the role you want the first four principles to play in your life will help to clear the fog and will automatically move you toward kindness. Once you have looked inside, changed what you want to change and accepted what you want to accept, once you have fallen in love with yourself, once you feel amazing and are overflowing with love and gratitude, then you will find your natural state of being, and love and kindness will flow from you effortlessly, changing the lives of those you meet. Wherever you are now, and wherever you feel your path in the world is leading, following the Gokai will make a huge difference to your life and your health. I would love to see them appreciated for their true depth and the simple wisdom they hold. Amanda Jayne Copyright May 2007