THE TEXTING MAGNET ONE SIMPLE TEXT THAT WILL GET HER INSTANTLY ATTRACTED
It s your relationship, and in your relationship, if you re not happy - you have the right to be disappointed with your partner s behavior. LIVIUS BESSKI
THE TEXTING MAGNET So here s the thing, if my girlfriend is neglecting me lately, she doesn t have time for me, she s taking way too long to reply to my texts, and when she does, her replies are short and lacking any affection. This would of course make me feel unhappy and dissatisfied with the relationship. Now, if I am unhappy in my relationship, I have to communicate that to my partner. Otherwise I ll keep being unhappy. So I need to let her know about what is bothering me, and see if we can find a solution to that where both of us will feel happy. So if I am in this situation, and I can t have an actual conversation with her, to talk about what I am not pleased with, then to get her attention I would use what I call the magnet text, or the disappointment text.
The magnet text sounds like this: I don t know what s going on, but you re acting a bit distant lately, and that makes me kind of disappointed with how you re treating me. Now this text, is meant to initiate a longer conversation about how she s treating you. This will get her attention, and she ll probably get back to you quite fast, to figure out what s going on, and try to fix your disappointment.
Why This Text Works So Well? The magnet text is a very powerful strategy. Because it does a lot of things at once. It gets her attention - if until now she wasn t paying much attention to your texts, this one cannot be ignored, because it makes her worried about losing you. It shows that you respect yourself - this text shows that you are not going to tolerate being with a woman that neglects you. So you respect yourself and ask to be treated with love and care. It shows that she could lose you - your disappointment implies that she could lose you if she s not stepping up her behavior. And when she sees that she could lose you, that rekindles her desire for you. Now she wants to keep you. It gives her a chance to progress - if until now she was taking you for granted, now she has to put some effort in the relationship, to keep you and when she puts effort in keeping you - she will value you and appreciate you more! And these 4 things are all the right buttons to trigger her attraction, respect and desire for you.
But here s the most important thing: you must really believe that you deserve to be treated better. And you must be really okay with losing a woman that doesn t treat you like you deserve. This is part of my work with guys, when I coach them, they get to build this romantic confidence. Where they stop feeling needy about their partner, and start to regain their power in the relationship. Use your free consultation bonus before you send this magnet text and we ll work on that.
What To Do After The Text? And when she texts you back, or calls you back, you must stand your ground - when she asks you what is going on - you need to tell her exactly what you re not satisfied with, and discuss together how she can improve so that you re both happy. The biggest mistake you can make in this part, is taking back your disappointment and saying that it s not a big deal, or apologizing for your needs. She may not like your complaints, and she my be upset with what you re telling her, but that s okay. Even if she doesn t like your complaints, you must stand your ground and let her know that it s important for you to be with a woman who shows that she loves you and cares about you, not with one who neglects you. Now if you ve stood your ground and stood up for your needs even if she didn t like to hear them Now she ll see that they are important to you, and she ll be open to discuss how she can improve. Which is where you tell her what she can do to make you happy. It s not about obligating her to do something, but about discussing together as a team, how you can find a solution where you can BOTH feel good (ex: her putting more effort into showing that she cares about you, but also in a way that doesn t make her feel suffocated)
Remember: it s not needy to have needs and ask for what you want, it s needy to need this woman to meet your needs. But you don t need her to make you happy, you just INVITE her to make you happy. And if she can meet your needs, then she s a good partner for you, if she can t or doesn t want to, then maybe this relationship doesn t make sense anymore.
And the beautiful part is that when all of this is done, you ll notice how in the next few days she ll be a lot different than before - she ll text you more, she ll reply faster, she ll send you pictures. She ll be your sweet girlfriend again. Why?
Because you stood up for yourself, and have shown her that she has a real man, who respects himself, is not afraid of losing her and will not sacrifice his happiness just to be with her. THE END
If you feel like you need more clarification about how to use this strategy, I m open to discussing that with you. Use your free consultation bonus and we can have a talk about that. LIVIUS BESSKI