Let me make one thing very clear Chapter II: The Power Of Intent THIS WILL BE THE MOST IMPORTANT CHAPTER IN THIS COURSE! Be sure to read it over and over again. Keep on reading it until you fully UNDERSTAND it. Why must you do this? Simple IF YOU DON T, NOTHING YOU LEARN IN THIS COURSE WILL WORK! Let me ask you a question Why do you enter into rapport in the first place? There s a reason you re doing it, right? If there isn t a reason behind it, what s the point? This brings us to the notion of INTENT. The key to successful rapport is all about your intent. Understand rapport is an outgrowth of Intent. Without intent, you can gain rapport, but to what end? Allow me to explain further Let s say you re in Los Angeles, and you want to go to New York, 3,000 miles away. What do you do? Do you just hop in your car and hit the road? Or do you buy a map,
plan out how far you need to drive each day, what the best motels are to stay at, and what the shortest route to New York is before you get in your car? If you just hop in your car and go for it, chances are you ll never make it to New York. But if your intent is to make it to New York within a certain time frame, chances are, that s exactly what will happen. In this example, your INTENT is to travel cross country from Los Angeles to New York. You know where you want to go. Rapport would be the process by which you get there. In dating and seduction, you must have intent whenever you gain rapport. Understand that in rapport, YOU must go where you want to first but at the same time, you want someone you re in rapport with to take an action you desire. When you do rapport properly, you will go emotionally where you want your subject to go FIRST, before the woman will follow you there. But if you lack INTENT, chances are you will lead them towards the wrong action! Understand the #1 Rule of Seduction Oriented Rapport: Rapport combined with Intent is VERY powerful! Let me ask you this Have you ever been out with a friend, seen him do well with a girl, and get her phone number? (I should hope you have! If you haven t, think of a time when you did this yourself.) Now, remember if he ever followed up on that phone number. Did he actually bother to call her? If so, did she ever call him back? Why not? After all, he gained enough rapport with her to get her number in the first place, right? All too often, I see guys go out to pick up women, get lots of phone numbers, and then NEVER FOLLOW UP ON THEM. This is because it was their INTENT to get a girl s phone number And that s it! Once they achieved their intent, the game was over. If your intent is to get a girl s phone number, the strategy you d apply after getting rapport is different from if your intent was to get this girl to go to bed with you. That is why Intent is so damn important! It s the difference between making your way to New York (getting her to sleep with you) and just deciding to visit a motel along the way (getting her number). Rapport is part of
the journey, but intent is the destination and destination always dictates how the journey proceeds. Understand: Having rapport skills without realizing your intent will NOT get you what you desire. And worse than having NO intent is having the WRONG intent. Most people don t consider their intent, and because they don t consider it, they don t know how to get it. If their intent was to get the number and nothing else, they will only get the girl s number and nothing else! It might be they really wanted to get her into bed, but instead, their intent was short sighted, so they ended up getting what they DIDN T really want. Realize that your Intent drives everything! So before you even step FOOT outside the door to try and use your rapport skills to meet women, you need to ask yourself: What is my intent? Is your intent I just want to practice, so my intent is just to talk to 10 women. I m going to go out and get five numbers tonight. My intent is to get a girlfriend, so I m going to go out and find a girl I want to be in a relationship with. I want to hook up with a hottie tonight, so my intent is to find a beautiful woman and have sex with her. I m interested in a friends with benefits relationship, so I m just going to go out and have fun, and see what happens. Now, as you can imagine, the things you ll do while you re out depends on which of these intents you go with. (But these are just examples. It s best if you think of your own intent the true outcome of what you want and why you want it!) Please understand why I am harping on knowing your intent so much Knowing your Intent is VITAL to its manifestation! What do I mean by this? I mean: If you don t clarify your intent clearly, you will NEVER get it! Manifestation is the process by which your intent is REALIZED.
Let s say you want to have a hot blonde, with DD breasts, who will come over every night and have sex with you. Your Intent is to achieve that. How could you possibly hope to make that happen if you didn t have it nailed down? You might be going after brunettes, or red heads, with small breasts when the blonde with the biggun s is what you REALLY want! See how it works? Manifestation will only occur once your intent is clear. If you can clarify your intent clearly, then you have the ability to manifest your intent. And Rapport is the skill you use to actually manifest your intent. See how this works? Intent + Rapport = Manifestation! Be aware that Rapport by itself is NOTHING. Rapport without intent is completely valueless. What you are trying to ACHIEVE is the really important thing. So always be aware of your intent, BEFORE you gain rapport. Let s cover a few exercises to help us determine your intent 1. Be clear of your intent before you go out to pick up a woman. 2. Sit down, with a pen and paper, and WRITE OUT the traits and qualities you want in a girl. 3. Separate them into 2 categories: MUST HAVE and WOULD BE NICE TO HAVE. 4. Once you know the qualities of the girl you desire, ask yourself the question What do I want from her when I find her? 5. Write out the answer. Do you want a relationship? Do you want straight sex? Do you want friendship? Do you want a casual relationship? 6. Once you have what you want from her, write down the emotions YOU would need to feel with her in order to have that intent manifest itself. 7. Review the material you have written down. Look at the traits and qualities you MUST HAVE from a girl. Once you spot those, you can gain rapport, and take her through the emotions you wrote down in step 6. That is your road map to manifesting the intent you developed in step 5. Now, understand that his exercise is NOT FINISHED. In fact, there is a KEY ingredient missing here. Let me be clear: DO NOT attempt to manifest this intent just yet, until you get the missing ingredient! I will reveal to you what you need to make this exercise complete in the next chapter.
(Seriously, it s so important, I had to devote and entire chapter to it!) In the next section, we are going to talk about how we can pursue this process of manifestation further by getting the women you re with to take the actions you want them to. Once you understand this, then you will have a clear view of how to manifest your Intent!