Three Easy Steps to Attract Your Soul Mate In this report, you will use The same tools that I used to Attract my divine husband into my life. Sarah Anma The Relationship Mentor SarahAnma.com All rights reserved. No part of this document may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any electronic or mechanical means, including information storage and retrieval systems, without permission in writing from the copyright holder, except by a reviewer who may quote brief passages in a review.
Dear Friends, Are you frustrated by the dating game? Do you feel like there are no good ones left? Does it seem like finding a mate is easy for everyone but you? Do you feel like your choices haven t worked out too well? In this manual, you will use powerful techniques to help you attract the person that is meant for you. You can shift from looking for a mate to receiving one. We use 3 simple and effective tools to draw your Dream Mate to you. 1. The power of ENVISIONING. The universe provides, but we must be specific in our request. We use a vision board for this exercise. 2. The principle NATURE ABHORS A VACCUUM. Creating space has profound results. 3. SUMMON your Dream Mate with a tangible love letter addressed specifically to them. If you know my story, you know that I was driven to seek relationship skills out of DESPERATION! I had lost hope that I could find a good mate or that there were any available to me. I found hope in two forms: 1. Mentors who have successful relationships 2. My own intuition. Answering my heart s cry for a loving relationship, I took new approaches to that part of my life, and the results were VERY different.
www.sarahanma.com Before I met my husband, I had done a lot of work on myself to get clear on what I wanted and to forgive the past. I was still unable to attract the right person for me. Searching, searching, searching did NOT work! I knew of no other way and I became so desperate, that I was seriously considering taking a vow of celibacy for the rest of my life! 2009 Sarah Anma, Art of Relationship, LLC. All Rights Reserved
There were TWO aspects of my circumstances: 1. SHIFTING I needed to replace old ideas of scarcity and lack in my romantic life. I also had to shift from someone who takes from the relationship to one who gives. In the following pages, we discuss practical tools to make that happen. 2. CLEARING I had to clean up the garbage in my heart and mind. I had to get real about who I was and how I had acted in the past before there would be room for new possibilities. Then I had to learn how to forgive myself and others. That work is too big and comprehensive to be discussed here. If you want more info on that process, please go to http://sarahanma.com/singles/ or write info@sarahanma.com. I employed these tools at different times in my life. One of them I did FIVE years before I met my husband! The shifting steps in this guide are an amazing supplement to the clearing work. I found that both the clearing and the shifting were essential for me to be ready for the love of my life. I did the work because I knew that forcing the issue wouldn t work (from the numerous examples in my life and others!). A couple of the following methods I borrowed from mentors and adapted to my specific love purpose. The third one came from my intuition. I am sure you will find it in alignment with many spiritual practices. I had worked on clearing the debris from the past but I had not shifted my limiting beliefs. The tools in this manual are immensely practical ways to retrain the mind into believing and living in a world where you can be happily committed in a mutually beneficial loving relationship. The following steps are easy and, when you take the time to do them with consciousness and an open heart, they are effective. I found that once I had a loving mate, I also needed to learn how to interact with him, but that is a different story. You can find info about that at the end of this guide in Resources.
Using some tools that tap into the Law of Attraction can be like a Rocket Booster to the process of finding a mate. The Law of Attraction is essentially that like attracts like, and our thoughts determine our reality. This law works on the quantum level and you may read more about it in the resources section at the end of the manual. A key ingredient is GRATITUDE which allows space in your heart for more love to come in. If you have done things like this and think that they aren t working, you may need to ask yourself if you have a barrier that is preventing you from being open to receive. Barriers look like this: Bitterness Unwillingness to Forgive Inability to Forgive Limiting Beliefs ( no good ones left, not worthy of a mate, etc.) that you aren t ready to release. If you have trouble in these areas, you will need to do a little work to make the room necessary for your loved one. I have a system that addresses these barriers that is too content-heavy to include here. Once you have done your work to remove the barriers, you have some more options! Yea! Drawing on the principle of the Law of Attraction, you can
create more and more space to allow for the person who is meant to be your partner into your life. One needs to: CREATE it in thought FEEL it to your core Be GRATEFUL What I have come to know in my heart is that my before picture was not a rare case! SO many people are struggling with being single and so this is one of my ways in which I can give you some hope! And as we know, hope works best with some tangible action, so, are you ready? Let s Go! Love,
Step #1 for Manifesting YOUR Soul Mate Heart-Centered Vision Board with MEANING When you want something, you first must imagine what is possible, and what you want. If you haven t already got a list of your ideal mate, take about 30 minutes to list their attributes and what activities you would do together. Be specific with your attributes list. You may be more general with the images, but the Universe responds to our requests specifically.
Now you can create a Vision board using stock photos from the internet Magazines, brochures, are great for cutting out pictures specific to your heart s desire. Online resources are: Google images http://images.google.com/ Stock.Xchng http://www.sxc.hu/ http://freestockphotos.com/ See http://www.sethigherstandards.com/creating-a-vision-board/ for an example of a lifestyle vision board. Yours should be specific to your desired lovelife. Some people make a video Vision Statement using digital photos and a slideshow software. You can use the above sites for stock photos or your own. Slideshow software is nice because you can add text and movement to the project which gives it a dynamic feeling. You can also add music which intensifies the emotional impact. In your vision include pictures of what happiness looks like to you, the qualities of your Dream Mate, text of how you are feeling in a deeply committed relationship, what places you are visiting together and activities that you are doing. The statements and feelings are in the present tense. Get into it! Review it every day and when you do, flood yourself with the feelings of what you see as if you are experiencing it RIGHT NOW. If you think of it in terms of the future, the Universe will provide it in a future that may never materialize. Feel it in the present moment. Let your heart overflow with the joy that this relationship is bringing you. Let your love wash over the images. Be there now and tap into the deepest gratitude you possibly can.
Step #2 for Manifesting YOUR Soul Mate Nature Abhors a Vaccuum Create an altar, even a tiny one. The one shown is more elaborate than necessary. On the altar, put a box, bowl or vessel without a lid so that it exemplifies openness. Leave it open because nature abhors a vacuum. Inside, mentally put the attributes that you want in your mate that you are also becoming. In meditation speak to your mate, ask them to feel the love that you are already sending them daily. Look for no reward, but bask in your own capacity to love without return! Again, nature abhors a vacuum! You will see the effects of this right away, you will start to attract sweetness from all aspects of your life. For an added boost, put your left hand in the center of your chest and your right hand on top. Connect deeply to the energetic center of the heart (or heart chakra) under your hands.
www.sarahanma.com Step #3 for Manifesting YOUR Soul Mate Letter to the LOVED from the LOVER Write a love letter to your beloved. Five years before I met my husband, I wrote him a letter! Of course, I had no idea who he was, when or where I would meet him, and I even had doubts that he existed. Even in spite of all of that, when writing the letter, I acted as if he existed and that we had already fallen in love, courted, and decided to spend the rest of our lives together. After moving four times over two states, I still had that letter! At one point when we were dating, he and I broke up and I still kept it. I was bewildered because I thought the letter was meant for him (which it was) but for 6 months, I thought, Oh well, I guess someone else gets this. 2009 Sarah Anma, Art of Relationship, LLC. All Rights Reserved
We had a happy reunion after doing some individual growing. The poor letter became quite dog-eared. When it came time for me to give it to him, I trimmed it and mounted it on a nice piece of handmade paper. I hand delivered it to him on our wedding night. You letter can sound something like this: My beloved, I do not yet know who you are but I love you wherever you are. Please know that I pray for your wellbeing and look forward to the day when we meet. Thank you for being in my life! What happiness we will have! Your beloved This must be handwritten! Something magical happens between the head and the hand that is disconnected by a keyboard. You may later enter it into your computer for a record, but the original should be handwritten and kept. You may decorate your letter, you may put it into your favorite spiritual book. You may pack it up in a storage box and forget about it. I did many times with that one letter! I d always be surprised when I found it and think, Oh, yeah When we give love we shift from a position of GREEDY TAKER. When we are looking, looking, looking then we emit a repellant FORCE FIELD that is inherent in the energy being thrust away from you. When you give without worrying about gain, you leave your heart an OPEN SPACE into which love can come. Nature abhors a vacuum! And it feels good! See how sweet it is to give from the heart! Here are Rocket boosters to each of the three tools: Sincerity Clarity Enthusiasm Open Mind Open Heart Suspension of disbelief (or acting as if) Let me know how you do! I can t wait to hear of your successes.
Resources: If you want to hear more about how I learned to be a great partner, check out the free audio download on my site http://sarahanma.com If you want information on how to clear away the garbage and learn to forgive, sign up for my free teleclasses or we can set up an appointment for a get acquainted session where we can determine if I can help. www.sarahanma.com Info about Law of Attraction: http://www.abraham-hicks.com/lawofattractionsource/index.php http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/law_of_attraction http://www.oprah.com/slideshow/oprahshow/20080627_tows_lawofattraction