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1 Presents The Real You Making a positive change in this world starts with you 1

2 CHAPTER 1: The Real You...pg3 We all doubt ourselves and lack certainty at times in our lives. In this chapter you will learn how you can have even more certainty to handle whatever situation you are faced, with confidence. CHAPTER 2: Tame Your Internal Critic...pg6 Sometimes we can behave like our own worst enemy. In this chapter you will learn how to tame your internal critic and make empowering choices going forward. CHAPTER 3: The Power of Empowering Questions...pg11 Do you have a dream / a goal that right now seems impossible? In this chapter you will learn how to come closer to making it achievable. CHAPTER 4: Believe in your dreams...pg14 We all have some beliefs that hold us back in following our hearts and achieving our dreams. In this chapter you will learn how to free yourself from beliefs that no longer serve you and create beliefs that empower you. 2

3 Chapter 1: The Real You We all doubt ourselves and lack certainty at times in our lives. In this chapter you will learn how you can have even more certainty to handle whatever situation you are faced, with confidence. We all doubt ourselves and lack certainty at times in our lives. Why do we do that? One of the major reason why, is the fear of the unknown and/or doing something new we haven t done or experienced before. We would rather stay where we are, even if it s uncomfortable & unfulfilling, because doing something new and different has no guarantees in our mind of being any better. We think this new experience may be worst then it actually is. Why is this so? It s because we re trying to protect ourselves from potentially experiencing discomfort or pain. Its human nature to want to avoid pain and seek out pleasure. So naturally, when we re confronted with a challenge of something we ve never done before a change, something we believe we re not good at or that appears too hard, we try to avoid it and go back to what feels comfortable. And in the process, we tell our selves, I am not good enough, smart enough, rich enough. The challenge with avoiding the unknown' is that you re missing out on the fullness of life. It s at these times, when you face the nerves and prove to yourself that you can, that you truly are alive. When you decide to feel the nerves and do it anyway, what happens is your comfort zone gets expanded and the next time you re faced with a similar situation, it becomes far more easier to deal with. 3

4 Exercise 1: Your answers in this exercise will help you gain clarity on what you are focusing on that contributes to the self-doubt you experience. Q1) Do you have dream / a goal that s been on the back burner for you for a while? Write it down. For example: I want to start my own business. You can have even more certainty to handle whatever situation you re faced, with confidence It takes a Tiny Tweak to make all the difference Focusing on what you want, as if you already have it right now can very often be stated with disbelie f because you look around and realise that you don t have it. Having it at this point can seem so far away, therefore not believable. For example, saying I have my own business (Refer to point 1 on the chart below) We re going to tweak this a little to bypass the barriers of this disbelief. (Refer to point 2 on the chart below) Instead of saying it in the present as I have my own business. Say it as I choose to have my own business. It makes it more believable because you re playing an active role of choosing. You re not contradicting yourself by saying I already have X and not believing it

5 So in summary, the tweak is using the word choose before whatever it is you want. Exercise 2: Try it! Q1) Re-write down your dream / goal (from Exercise 1 above) in the following format: I choose to For example I choose to start my own business. I choose to Q2) Think about achieving this goal and ask yourself. What do I choose to believe about myself / my ability / my available resources in order for me to achieve this goal? Who do I choose to BE? For example: I choose to be smart, diligent and do my research before starting my business. I choose to be confident and have a can do attitude. I choose to be Test it out: Say your answers to questions 1 and 2 out loud For example: Instead of saying: I want to start my own business SAY THE FOLLOWING I choose to start my own business Feel the difference of the Tiny Tweak? 5

6 Chapter 2: Tame Your Internal Critic Sometimes we behave like our own worst enemy. In this workbook you will learn how to tame your internal critic and make empowering choices going forward. Have you ever gone to a seminar, read inspirational books, set some goals that you were very excited about and then there always seems to be a genuine reason none of them happened? I know, I can relate. My experience is usually something like this. Yes! I m excited that I get to do this! I then sit down to do it and realize I NEED a cup of tea. So, I go and make a cup of tea. I come back and all of a sudden have a crazy craving for a snack, followed by a glass of wine for inspiration. By this time, I have this whole food party happening around me. And all the time, it s just me and my inner voice! Eventually, the truth comes out. Who do you think you are? You re not good enough to do this! What if people judge you? I call this voice Beatrice. Feel free to play along with me and name your internal critic. 6

7 Q1) What does your internal critic say to you when you re stepping into a new adventure, project or a goal? Something you don t feel right now you have the certainty of achieving the outcome you want. For example: Procrastinating on finishing the content for my website. My internal critic is saying: Oh, it s not there yet, you ll never get it right. It doesn t make sense. You are not explaining it well enough. Q2) What do you think of that voice? For example: It s annoying, frustrating. What happens when you listen to this voice? Well, we procrastinate in various forms. We work on something else which can show up as being a workaholic, but in something we re not really passionate about, but which we re comfortable in. We get another drink or more food, which can lead to over-drinking or over-eating. We play small, stay where we are and therefore don t explore our full potential. Why does this happen? Because on some level it s either uncomfortable, scary or feels unsafe and we want to avoid feeling this way. So, in order to avoid feeling this way, we behave in the ways described above. I am going to use a balloon as metaphor to demonstrate this further. Q3) How much energy and effort do you think it would take to hold a beach balloon under th e water? On a scale of 0 to 10. (Zero being super easy and 10 almost impossible.) Circle your answer: What do you think would happen when your release the balloon from being held under the water? That s right, it would fly back up. By pushing the balloon even deeper under the water, do you think it would jump up with more or less force? Yes, definitely with more force. If this balloon represented Beatrice (or whatever your internal critic is called) and his/her voice was saying You re not good enough (or whatever your stuff is), the more you try to push this voice down and avoid it, the stronger it s going to become, the next time you sit down to follow through with whatever you are choosing - that conversation, goal or project. 7

8 What I propose Take the balloon out of the water, look at it and understand it. What is it made of and why it is here saying the things its saying? Then as you gain the understanding of it, simply. POP IT! NOW, if it was to shows up in the future, it would hold a different less intense form making it much easier to deal with and eventually eliminate. What do you think is the purpose of Beatrice this nagging voice? Why do we keep getting in our own way? The purpose of our internal critic is to keep us safe. When we picture our success, what happens is because we haven t yet achieved it, we experience doubt and therefore don t feel safe. We feel that by reaching for our success, it s scary, uncomfortable or embarrassing (or however you feel). Our natural protective instinct is to keep us safe. Beatrice comes up loud and clear, saying things like You re not good enough to protect us from even trying, because right now, trying means we could fail, get hurt, disappointed, embarrassed or lose connection with the people we love. So what Beatrice is really saying: Its not safe. Please be careful, which we translate and filter through as You are not good enough! 8

9 So up until now, we have learned that our nagging internal critic is there to actually keep us safe. Now what?!? The next thing is to uncover why we don t feel safe. Beatrice is like a small child talking to you, trying to get your attention. If she s ignored, eventually, like a small child, she ll have a tantrum and turn nasty. So when we take the balloon out of the water and give Beatrice a voice by listening and understanding what s really going on we pop the balloon and Beatrice relaxes, lowers her voice and reduces her need to show up. Q4) What is your internal critic saying? Refer to your answer to Q1) above. Q5) What am I doing, saying, thinking of at the time that makes me feel unsafe and/or scared, uncomfortable etc.? For Example: I am working on finalising the content for my website. I am focusing on people reading my website and judging me. The next thing is to uncover, how your internal critic keeps you safe. Q6) What is the ADVANTAGE of you using and listening to your internal critic, staying where you are and not doing anything? How does this keep me safe? For example: If I don t finish my website I won t publish it, therefore I can t be exposed to judgement. Note: Your initial response to this question may have been how can my internal critic be keeping me safe? It s just a mean voice that I wish I didn t have. Well, the fact that the internal critic is around means it must somehow be serving you. So how is it serving you? How is it keeping you safe from the potential undesired outcome? 9

10 Q7) What are the positive feeling I experience from choosing to stay where I am and not do anything? For example: I feel safe, comfortable and certain of not being judged. The beautiful thing about realizing that your internal critic is actually trying to keep you safe is that it opens us up to look at it with more compassion. Ohhhh, I get why you are here I must be feeling unsafe about something and you are trying to protect me. The power of your AWARENESS In summary Once you have gained clarity on the real reason why your internal critic is here and realised that its purpose is to ultimately keep you safe. You have the power of CHOICE. What you CHOOSE to do with this awareness will impact your ultimate outcome. You can rationalise and evaluate the things you feel unsafe about. For example: Sure, people reading my website will judge. It s actually given that they will, as it won t speak to everyone. There will be people that will gain value from it and there will be people that won t. And they have every right to choose what fits into their model of the world. As you have found the real reason for procrastinating and evaluated its validity. With your new gained awareness, you have the power to choose. Will you or will you not continue to pursue the dream / goal? 10

11 Chapter 3: The Power of Empowering Questions Do you have a dream/goal that right now seems impossible? In this workbook you will learn how to come closer to making it achievable. When answering question 1 below, let go of any notion of whether this will happen or not. What matters is that the thought of it makes you feel good and puts a smile on your face right now. Using the question below, write down your dream/goal which may seem impossible or just too far away for you to achieve. For example: What if I choose to stand in front of 100 people and speak about my research? Q1) What if Next, imagine your impossible dream/goal. This is just a what if statement. Describe it in as much detail as you can. WHAT IF your dream/goal was to come true? A) What would it look like? What would you be doing? Where would you be? Who would you be with? For example: It is xx/xx/xxxx and the time is xx:xx am/pm. I am standing on the stage at X venue with 100 people in the audience. I can see Dr Johnson, Dr Thomson, Dr X, they re all here. They re taking notes as I speak. I m wearing my best black suit with a red shirt and my lucky red pair of heals. I see them nodding their heads, smiling and raising their hands to ask me questions. My PowerPoint presentation looks awesome. B) What does it sound like? What are you saying to yourself or to others? What are others saying? For example: It s quiet in the room as I speak. I m saying to myself, Wow! I m doing it, I m here speaking to this crowd. I m so proud and happy I get to contribute and share my findings. Dr. Peters asks me a question about X and I respond by saying X. Afterwards he nodded and said well done Claudia on your research. My voice is filled with confidence and certainty. 11

12 C) How does it feel? Describe the feeling in as much detail as you can. Where in your body do you feel it? For example: It feels amazing to be here, delivering my talk. My heart is beating fast with excitement but I am calm and focused. There is a feeling of warmth spreading through my heart across my chest. I feel prepared, confident and calm to be standing here. Now close your eyes for a moment, and imagining your answers to A, B and C above. What if you could achieve your dream / goal? What would that look, sound and feel like? Mark your score below. On the scale of 0 to 10, how possible does it seem for you to achieve this dream/goal right now? Your mission, should you choose to come closer to achieving your dream/goal is.. For the next 7 days, spend a minimum 5 minutes per day imagining your answers to A, B and C above. What if you could achieve your dream/goal? What would that look, sound and feel like? Some Tips: To make this really easy: o o Record yourself describing your dream/goal (start with the words, What if ) Use some inspiring background music and then just listen to it and let your imagination go wild. For example: What if I stood in front of 100 people and spoke about my research? Then describe your answers to A, B & C. You can also set a mobile phone reminder so you remember to do your daily visualisation. The more often you visualise the above with as much description and emotion as possible, the more effective your outcome will be. 12

13 The great thing about clearly imagining what you want is that your mind can t tell the difference between what s real and what s imagined. The emotions you experience while visualising this possibility feel just as real. What you re doing is gently letting go of the it s impossible status and opening yourself up to the possibility of it. At the end of the 1st week. After your 7 day What if power envisioning processes, check in with yourself again. On the scale of 0 to 10, how possible does it seem for you to achieve your dream / goal right now? Continue for another 7 days. If you wish to, refine and re-record your answers to questions A, B & C. At the end of the 2nd week. After your 14 day What if power envisioning processes, check in with yourself again. On the scale of 0 to 10, how possible does it seem for you to achieve your dream / goal right now? Continue for another 7 days. If you wish to, refine and re-record your answers to questions A, B & C. At the end of the 3rd week. After your 21 day What if power envisioning processes, check in with yourself again. On the scale of 0 to 10, how possible does it seem for you to achieve your dream / goal right now? Continue for another 7 days. If you wish to, refine and re-record your answers to questions A, B & C. At the end of the 4th week. After your 28 day What if power envisioning processes, check in with yourself again. On the scale of 0 to 10, how possible does it seem for you to achieve your dream / goal right now? CONGRATULATIONS AND WELL DONE FOR COMPLETING the What If Power Envisioning Processes. 13

14 Now, what action will you choose to take towards achieving your dream/goal? Chapter 4: Believe in your dreams We all have some beliefs that hold us back in following our hearts and achieving our dreams. In this chapter you will learn how to free yourself from beliefs that no longer serve you and create beliefs that empower you. I don t care if your dream is to paint portraits or analyse balance sheets you are on this planet for a reason. No other person has or will ever have the experiences, talents, strengths, perspectives that you have. If you are truly honest with yourself, you know there is something special you are meant to do in this world. Don t deny the world your uniqueness. Be yourself, everyone else is already taken (Oscar Wilde) In order to believe in your dreams, it starts with you, believing in yourself first Whether you think you can, or you think you can't-- you're right. (Henry Ford) Now! Are you a fan of Champaign, nice glass of red or white wine, a lovely cup of tea or a cold drink? If so, then consider this. If you hold the glass up in the air for 5 seconds, how would your arm feel? Pretty relaxed, right? If you hold your glass up in the air for 5 min, how would your arm feel? Let s just say a little uncomfortable and sore. If you hold the glass up in the air for 5hrs, how would your arm feel? Well, at this stage I think it s safe to say it would be ready to fall off. What impact do you think holding this glass up in the air for 5 days will have on you? What about holding it up for 5 years? What impact would that have on your entire physical, mental and emotional 14

15 wellbeing? Now, what if your glass represented a dis-empowering believe that you are choosing to hold about myself? The longer you choose to hold onto it the more of an impact it will have on your ability to achieve your dreams. Is there a belief.oh, I mean a glass that you have held on to for far too long? When would NOW be a good time to let it go? What is a belief and where does it come from? When we put out attention to something, we automatically decide what it means to us. For example: I failed in this area last time, therefore I can t try again, because I will fail. As oppose to I failed in this area last time, but I have learned valuable lessons. Next time I will succeed. Whichever meaning you choose over and over will become a belief. Your beliefs can be influence by several things. 1) Your Environment - If the people around you, especially the once you love and respect hold a particular view on something, without even realizing it, we adopt their believes. Human nature is that people that are alike each other, like each other. Great example would be, It s so hard to earn money. 2) Past Experiences example of this belief would be He/she left me, therefore I am unlovable 3) Your Education - example of this belief would be I am not good enough as I don t have a degree. Your belief ultimately starts with what you continuously choose to focus on. As you think, you become. Your past thoughts and beliefs have created your current view of yourself. Whatever you choose to think and believe about yourself right now will create your view of yourself in the future. You get to be whatever you choose to think! 15

16 Anything can become a belief. In the exercise below, you will gain clarity on what believe you currently have that is not supporting you and then decide what believe you want have instead that will support you in achieving your dreams and goal. Exercise 1: 1) Do you have dream / a goal that s been on the back burner for you for a while? Write it down below. Eg: Start my own business 2) Think about achieving this goal. What believe do you currently have about yourself that had held you back from achieving it? Eg: I am not good enough / smart to start and run my own business. The current belief I have about myself is: 3) What is supporting your current dis-empowering believes about yourself? Why do you believe this about yourself? What SPECIFIC past memories, experiences are you referring to? Write down as many as come up for you and then narrow it down to the top four. Next, pick the top four and write them down in the diagram below. Eg: 1) when I was 8, my teacher told me I was a slow learner or 2) my brother used pick on me about my intelligence or 3) I don t have any experience or 4) I remember trying x and failed. 16

17 Is it possible this belief is no longer true for me? What if it was false? Write your answer below: Who would I be without my limiting believe and what would I accomplish? 17

18 Can you remember a time when this belief was proven to be false? Based on something you did, said or based on something that someone had said about you. Eg: I have designed training manuals and taught people how to use computers. My manager told me I am doing a great job. People have referd to me as an expert. This contradicts my belief of not being smart enough and tells me that I am smart enough. Write down your limiting believe When was this belief proven to be false? (write down as many references as you can) What believe would you want to have about yourself instead, that will support you in achieving your goal/ dream? NOTE: You can find a reference to support anything you choose to believe. 18

19 19 My goal is: My New chosen belief about this goal is: Q1) How will, me continuing to choose this belief help me achieve my goal? Q2) What will it feel like when I have achieved this goal? Q3) What action do I get to take towards my goal now in order to feel like this? My New belief is supported by my 4 references below. Eg: 1) I ve survived through X challenge, I m strong enough to do this. 2) I ve received great feedback from X about my X. I am smart enough to do this. 3) If I don t know what to do, I will find out and learn.

20 20 NOTE: Place page 19 somewhere you can refer to it on daily basis to help you free yourself from a belief that no longer serve you and create a belief that empowers you. REMEMBER TO: Tame Your Internal Critic, ask Empowering Questions, Believe in your dreams and most importantly Be The Real You! You are amazing exactly the way you are. Shine your true light my love and share it with the people in your life. Like a ripple that flows out from a central point, you will contribute to making this world an even better place, now and for future generations. Yes! You are that powerful!

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